I've known this guy since the summer and we've sorta been on and off since then. About a month ago or so, he wanted me to have a threesome with his (guy) friend. When I told him that I was haing my time of the month, he said that first his friend would do whatever he wants with me for a while (since his friend has had one before), then he'll come in and continue. I asked him why would he not have a problem having his girl alone with another guy, he still kept asking me if his friend could go first. I dumped him after that but when he asked me to forgive him and be his girl again, i said alright. But when i was telling our friends that we go out, he said "hell no we don't go out". I was furious with him and he said it was a joke but didn't tell his friends that it was. Now he wants me to come over to his house with his best friend and wants me to, in my terms, strip in front of them. When I told him that i got baptized, he still wanted me to do it.I don't want to do it What should I do?
2006-12-14 00:12:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also says that he doesn't want to go out with me because he always screws them up and since he doesn't want to screw us up, he wants us to be freinds and ACT like we go out.
2006-12-14 00:20:18 · update #1
Well I am afraid you are going to have to utterly cut yourself off emotionally for a start because to me and anyone reading the answer is obvious and unless you can't find it within yourself to make some tough decisions you are going to have this low life walk all over you.
Finish with him and sever all ties, DO NOT respond to contact calls and follow up on the baptism because with gods help anything is possible.
2006-12-14 00:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Shaun W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your right.
if your not comfortable and you know you dont like it, then DONT do it. No matter how much he begs or asks you to forgive him. Dont let yourself be treated like a doll that follows orders, rather be a woman and have some pride and dignity.
If you love him, confront and understand him. But it looks like he's playing games and doesnt take you seriously. Play hard to get and see if he runs to you, when he does then you start making the rules and conditions (pay back time!!)
If he still treats you that way, I say you dump him but to be safe say you'd rather be friends...normal, safe friends....
2006-12-14 08:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm from the uk, but i believe the American expression is Kick Him To The Curb!! You deserve to be treated so much better than this and be with someone who is proud to tell people that you are his girlfriend. I think you are already having doubts or you wouldn't be asking the question.
There are guys out there who will treat you better, I can guarantee it!
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 08:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by whippetgirl2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
udmp him and dont take him back next time even if he does ask you to forgive him! all he wants to do is take advatage of you and he will keep bugging you if you let him if he does not take no as an answer the first time then leave him and dont take him back you can find some1 alot better and some1 that dont only want to take advantage of you ok good luck!
2006-12-14 08:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by sassysammy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl stop tripping and leave these dudes alone, they are bad news and he has already shown that he is embarrassed to be connected with you. Walk the other way when you see him coming. He is looking for a sucker don't be one.
2006-12-14 08:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him immediately! He SO obviously doesn't respect you or care for you.. he's just hoping you are gullible enough to come over and give him and his friend a thrill. How disgusting!! How could you EVEN consider this?!?!
2006-12-14 08:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused and should not date at all! Men are kinky (some) and like the idea of another man having sex as he watches or gets involved. But in your case you are way to young to even date from the way you write>>>
2006-12-14 08:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by SweetDeath! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go to hell and leave you alone and don't call me ever again! He is just playing you to do a 3some and they might be setting you up for something else. Run Forrest, Run!
2006-12-14 08:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You my friend, appear to be too stupid to deal with good advice.
So, do whatever he asks and be happy somebody is remotely interested in you.
Seriously, have some self respect and never talk to this person again.
2006-12-14 08:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by detroit al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stop reading after the three some part soo heres my advice drop him he dosen't care about you cause he wants to share you with his friends thats nasty
2006-12-14 08:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋