if you like someone you should be upfront about it without playing mind games.?

Question

i mean seriously, it'll be faster and easier to be straight forward about it instead of thinking all the "What If's" right? people usually say girls shouldn't be the first ones to show their feelings but does it really matter whether your a girl or a guy?.

Answer 1

I agree. It is stupid to think too much before approaching someone. Being yourself is the safest and most dignified way, no matter how other people feel about it.

Answer 2

It's best to get everything out in the open from the start no matter who you are and let that person know where you stand. If they want to play games then they can go find some kids and play a game with them.

Answer 3

im far from bein an expert on this but this is wat i think:
mind games help u make out wat kinda person the other person is..n u might be able to figure out how much that person really likes u.. it's like a pulling a rubber band to see how elastic it is.. mind games might sieve out the good from the bad.. (i say MIGHT)..
but i'd say that although u outta be straightforward in action (like spending more time with him/her), u shouldn't be straightforward in words, until u're ready to marry... cuz if not, it'll make ur words cheap... personally, i aint gonna trust a girl when she says "I love you" if she's said that to 10 other boyfriends before..
so, why not try this: Show. Don't tell.
if he/she's a good person, they'll appreciate it more than anythin..

Answer 4

I've always been straight forward about it when I'm interested in someone. Not just because it's quicker and more practical, but because you go nuts if you fancy someone and you don't know if they feel the same. Go for it.

Answer 5

I agree , spit it out ,

Answer 6

Know it shouldn't matter when two people care about each other than they should be together.