if ur past is very bitter and it comes in front of u no matter how much u try to avoid it , wat r u supposed to do wen ur heart and body fells sick and there is no one but urself who can understand the agony of committing mistakes in life!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 00:03:48 · 24 answers · asked by ananaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn from it and move on. Make better choices and feel comfortable and confident within yourself. Forgiveness is the key, once you forgive you can then heal. Learn from the mistake so you don't keep repeating the same thing. God bless****
2006-12-14 00:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is not regret for what happened. Life is a learning process and teaches us a lot of things. We should learn from our mistakes and move on with life. Take the good things of any incident that happened, and learn what went wrong in the bad incidents. Regret can lower your self-esteem and self-confidence and you would not want that. Everyone screws up sometime or the other. No regret, no remorse should be your motto. It would be hard, but you can learn to do it as humans are pretty adaptive. Remember all the wrong things that happened and learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them and just move on. Life can become better in the future and that hope is what fuels us to live life well! There is no point crying over spilt milk. The best thing to do is clean up the mess and go buy an new carton of milk and enjoy its flavor!
2006-12-14 09:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remind yourself you did the best you could at that time,,,,,, and if faced with the same situations now, you would probably do it different,,,,,,, and also, recognizing mistakes is a very good thing,,, some people dont ever realize they have made any,,,,,, just try not to dwell on it ,,,,,,,, look at the mistakes, ask yourself if you learned anything,,,,, then look at today,, and try not to make mistakes (though people are human, and always do)
im sure if you realized how big of a mistake something was in the past, while you were doing it, you most likely would of not done it,,,,,
also, besides your mistakes, there are things you did right,, right? try to think of those,,,
its odd, for myself, i more regretted the past when i was younger, i guess now , while i wish i had done some things different,,,,,, i more look to today, and the future,,,,,
2006-12-14 08:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never Dwell in the Past
Past brings Pain very Fast
If u want the agony to leave and no longer last
Have faith in future and have confidence in urself, thats all what I Telecast.........
2006-12-14 08:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have made mistakes in the past, we all dwell on the past from time to time, but we have to surpress the past, learn from our mistakes and not let the past dominate our future, for as the word suggests, it is past, gone, finished, now, we have to make a new past, better than the last we hope.
2006-12-14 09:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter wat everyone has some bitter experience in past .. think over it but never let that come and effect u ... everyone is busy with their current life ... there will be a time when u can become vendictive ... untill then stay happily in present
if ur a girl then i have seen many ... it won't take u ppl more then 15 days to overcome it .. proved by studies too ..
2006-12-14 09:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sansita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot forget what happened, you cannot undo the things done. But you can carry on and try to make it better next time and lead a happy life. You have learned from your mistakes. Good luck.
2006-12-14 08:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something that makes you enjoy the present and dont worry about doing mistakes as long as you know you are doing the right things. the past is all gone but to learn from your mistakes - look towards the future where you know will make fewer mistakes.
2006-12-14 22:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by alan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes mistakes. Dwelling on the past will not accomplish anything. Forgive yourself and leave the past in the past where it belongs. If someone brings your past up, bring up theirs.
2006-12-14 08:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell, that's one tough stuff to face... i aint any expert on this as im fightin my own past, but here's wat i heard (and i 'd like to try myself):
we might need to CONFRONT our past and RECONCILIATE with ourselves.. and NOT AVOID IT.. well, that's the tough part too, rite?..
for example: if a guy had a traumatic car accident n survived, and that memory still haunts him every single night..then he should, in his mind, reminisce n reconstruct EVERY second of that incident (that he can remember), realize his mistake, and forgive himself..then promise not to make the same mistake in the future... maybe even find something to thank God about..like his life.. one guy even visited the site of his accident in order to do this...
well, this takes a lot, i guess..n i'll never understand the agony u're facin..but hey, i wanna be free of my nightmares too.. maybe we can both try this method out.. and see wat good we get..
2006-12-14 08:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋