I wont have sex with a someone that I dont love..... Would you.... I see the sex part as the ultimate sign of love... Or is sex just sex to you ...?
2006-12-13 23:46:59 · 27 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you are saying sex really means nothing apart from sex.... You dont have to love the other person.... So it is more like a ritual.... that couples do...or a bit of exercise..... Maybe I am completely messed up and need to forget about the love...
2006-12-13 23:59:39 · update #1
Sex is sex. It's a natural, mammal based drive. But humans also have brains, and hearts, so that da.mn love thing gets in the way.
2006-12-13 23:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I have had both and I can honestly say that it is a million times better with someone you love.
I would even say that I regret having sex just on impulse now, when out of a relationship.
You don't need to forget about love at all. I think it's great that you have principles. Don't let others comments change your mind (Except for this one! lol) If it doesn't feel right, don't do it.
2006-12-14 00:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ess-Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,
I have always seen sex the same way as you. Beieve me, you do feel quite guilty afterwards, especially the first time. It is an act of love that should be saved for that one special someone once you are married. And beware of STDs. Usually if someone wants to have sex, they have likely had it before. If they have any STDs, beware. You won't know until its to late. You will always hear, "a condom prevents that". Thats a load of garbage, it only helps prevent. Hope this helps.
Wee Man.
2006-12-13 23:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by boychuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex means different things for different people. I have had sex before without love....but certainly prefer it with love. When you have that emotional connection there is a lot of passion. Without love in the picture it's just an act....really good when you are in the moment but usually leaves an empty feeling.
2006-12-13 23:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are one of those people who find it hard to imagine being physically so close to someone and not love them ... I tried to be like that for a while years ago, but it wasn't me. Sex is no good unless there's real feeling there, more than just attraction. For me, anyway. And at 38 years old, I should know ...
2006-12-14 00:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should only have sex with the person you truly love. Actually, I believe you should wait until your married. I waited, and I think it shows the ultimate commitment. I would not change that for anything. But if thats not an option, you should wait until you love that person, heart body and soul.
2006-12-13 23:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Spoiled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is part of love yet no longer a love.sex is a actual want it is fulfilled by using his/her companion for the reason that they love one yet another..without sex,Love is conceivable and it really is moral yet without love sex is immoral as per faith.( No offence with someone human beings or community who believes in sex with mutual information is ideal)
2016-10-18 06:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is sex, and love is love. Sex and love do go together, but not necessarily
Are you still at school? What a strange question!
2006-12-13 23:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it can be both. when i was in a relationship for 5 years i saw it as love but now I'm single again sex is just that for me sex, just a bit of fun! well sort of i had sex with my new boyfriend after we had been together 3 weeks and we only had sex twice then he dumped me as he was only interested in sex! so it can be just sex if both parties are aware of what it is in the beginning.
2006-12-13 23:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you get the urge you get the urge!!
obviously sex is better when you love the person but can be just as exciting and wonderfull when you barely know them lol
You dont have to love someone to have sex with them, sometimes its just about scratching an itch, everyone has their own personal opinions though and if you feel that way then thats fine.
sex is more about lust the love comes after..
2006-12-13 23:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋