we loved each other for more than five years.dreamt evry thing of life together but she eloped with the driver of her father.
2006-12-13 23:43:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be brave.....y don't u look out.....probably u can elope with ur kaamwaali
2006-12-14 00:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by quick_one_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry ,I have been cheated on by my husband of 10 years .I don't understand he says he loves me and he regrets what he did ,and we are still together after 4 years ago ,but It killed something between us we can never get back and that is trust !!I would go ahead and move on I know you are hurt and I'm sorry this is just a cruel world at times .Find you a female friend to hang with as friends ,time will heal your pain some ,
2006-12-13 23:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh bro,this is bad,and very bad indeed.i use to have a girl and we were deeply in love for 10 years,adn last week she told me that she loved soemone else.but anyway,its trully a tragic situation,i hope you calm yourself down and not do anything out of the ordinary. dont go and get another girl immedietly cause,you wont yourself,.you will be crying over it for the next year or two,trust me.you wont even be able to love another girl,if you loved her that much.the only way your heart is going to heal,is by time.believe me,i have gone through the same situation except worse.i know the ins and outs of this one. she loves her dads driver,first of,you wouldnt even be angry with ehr cause,you love her that much.till today,you heart is still telling you that its all a joke cause,it simply cant accept teh fact.time is the only solution that will cure you.it wont be overnight,it may take months ,sometimes years.be strong.if you need persisting help,please email me.i'll help you through it bro.
2006-12-13 23:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by 50 cent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing constant about time my friend is change - why dont you try to look back - your talking about the years you spent togther - why dont you think about the time you made her feel like you really do love her - when was the last time to let your guard down on her and make her feel like she's your best friend or take her out on a very sweet and romantic date (the location does not matter the things you do does)
I was with my x-boyfriend for 4 years we even lived together for 1 year, but the thing is suddenly he ignored the things that means alot to me like holding my hands kissing me in the forehead for goodnight, doing something that means alot to me - at some point after that i felt like the man i have know has finally been void out of the existence of the man i was with...
Maybe your x wasnt happy anymore - with who she is when she is with you or shes not happy anymore about the way you treat her...
Since girls dont usually cheat and its not in our nature like you guys - she must have felt something with that guy that she's been looking for so long in you - that doesnt mean she doesnt love you at all its just that things always happen for a reason... and if you really love her dont you think she deserves something that you cannot give her...
2006-12-14 12:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then this relationship wasnot meant to be. Obviously the relationship as allowed to grow stale and not kept alive. If one does not water a plant and nuture it, it will die. The same goes for all relationships whether it be marriage or just boyfriend/girlfriend.
You have to move on now and find someone else that is worthy of your love.
2006-12-14 01:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature Man
2006-12-14 00:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The driver of her father? Now that's a new one. Did he drive over her father? Is she in love with a car?
2006-12-13 23:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see man love cannot be controlled by anybody a person's taste changes from time to time you may love a person love is not commitment but marriage is commitment love is just like reading a book you may love a person she might also love you after reading and understanding you she might or even you might find another person more interesting than her you may atart loving that person leaving the previous that is love
2006-12-14 01:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by seema r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you consider yourself lucky. What if she left you after you both got married. Better now then later. Dont worry, there is still many fishes in the ocean. Sometimes you must understand women, you never know what is their next move.
Good Luck
2006-12-17 21:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she was definitely keeping an affair from you. Sometimes women stay just for security reasons and that's probably why she stayed with you and played along with your dreams! It sucks but it does happen. People aren't always who they seem to be. Sorry
2006-12-13 23:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After loving you she eloped with someone else?? She is not worth you. forget her.
2006-12-13 23:48:28 · answer #11 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋