I really want to know how to win her over ??? Question of My life/First Love..?

Question

she is a sales/business development manager.Aged around 30,single and is pretty
attractive.I am a 27 Year software developer.Most of my life i have spent around
books and technicalities...Until one day i went to breakfast where she also used
to come for having break fast.

I saw her a couple of times...and i do not know how it happened..but my heart
used to beat fast when i see her.In a matter of couple of months she and i both
started recongnzing each other...She and i both used to look at each other and
smile...by now i really wanted to go and talk to her...but not sure how.

Well well...God worked it out for me...my company had arranged an expo event
where she had come and voila!!! there i saw her...I found a situation and
went and talked to her finally when she was alone...!!

Later we met couple of times at break fast...talked about all kind of things
she asked me questions like am i married...Will i marry same girl of my cast
what do i/ususally my parents

will look for when we chose a girl...stuf like
that...she did not tell much about her...but...revealed that she is still
single and lives alone...[ like me ]
We always used to meet at breakfast in hurry...so i called her one fine evening and asked her out for dinner over week end...She was fine and said "It sounds good" ...everything went fine....I mailed her next week regarding the possible good places...where we can go for dinner...She now says "i am busy with my boyfriend over the week end but we can
always meet at breakfast sometime"...I just do not understand..what went wrong.I have seen her looking at me and my heart some how says she likes me.I really do not know what to do further...Tomorrow is my birthday...I am plannind to meet her over evening for a cup of coffee and get
her some sweets.of my birthday What should i do to win her over ? I really like her..and want to hold her hand for rest of my Life...I do not know but my heart says she is the first and last in my Life

Answer 1

She sent you mixed signals..... I would have to say... it's too late... she already has a bf but i don't think you should worry.... why? Because if she really is for you... then it would be destiny that you need to consult but you can't just sit there and wait... you could try talking to her about how she feels.... like if she's happy w/ her bf and stuff like that and well.... if she tells you that she is and if you really do love her.... then set her free...:) Dont worry.... your girl will come soon... that is if its not her!!! BTW.... Advance Happy Birthday!!!

Answer 2

FIRST- DON'T BE SO EXTREME IN THE WAY YOU ACCEPT THE WHOLE SITUATION!"THE FIRST AND ALSO THE LAST"? YOU DON'T KNOW THAT! SHE IS A GIRL THAT YOU LIKE, APPARENTLY SHE LIKES YOU ALSO. NOW, WHAT COULD HAVE CHANGED FROM THE MOMENT YOU SPOKE AND SHE AGREED TO MEET YOU AT DINNER, TO THE MOMENT SHE SAID SHE WAS BUSY?! THAT'S WHAT BOTHERING YOU. YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW IF YOU JUST SIT AND WONDER. IT WOULD BE ONLY GUESSES. THE BEST YOU CAN DO IS TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN IS THAT YOU COULD BE REJECTED. THAT WAY AT LEAST YOU WOULD KNOW HER POINT OF VIEW OVER THE SITUATIN. BUT THERE'S ALWAYS ANOTHER OPTION- SHE CAN UNDERSTAND YOU! SHE MAY BE SCARED OF SMTH, OR HAVING SOME OTHER PROBLEMS OR EVEN NOT FEELING READY FOR A RELATINSHIP. OR MAYBE SHE'S AFRAID THAT YOU WOULD USE HER ETC ETC. REMEMBER- BE MODERATE IN THE WAY YOU TALK TO HER. DON'T PRESENT THINGS LIKE SHE IS THE ONE AND ONLY AND SO ON, COS SHE MAY THINK OF YOU AS SOME PSYCHO AND YOU CAN SCARE HER AWAY. IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND, YOU CAN OFFER HER YOUR FRIENDSHIP. THAT WAY YOU WILL BE CLOSE TO HER, AND IT'S NOT RARE THAT FROM FRIENDSHIP ONLY, TINGS GROW INTO THE STRONGEST RELATIONSHIPS AND EVEN MARRIAGES. VISIT MY 360 PAGE IF YOU WANT ANOTHER ADVICE.

Answer 3

i just want to tell you that you are very sweet! i think she is interested in you and you did nothing wrong. i think this boyfriend of hers just popped into the picture and she just thought 'what the hell, i'll give him a chance.' i don't think she thought you were interested in her because you didn't make a move and waited. it is also a good thing that she asked you if you were married, to see if she had an opportunity. if you are meeting, you need to come clean with your feelings. maybe she is feeling the same thing. what's the worst that could happen? if you do get rejected, at least you'll know where things stand. if you don't do anything, you'll most likely never know. and girls don't want to be the first ones to make a move. they feel it is the guys job and that if you're interested, you'll make the first move. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Answer 4

Maybe she's playing hard to get? If so, then its up to you to always make the move, becuz your a guy and girls will always excpect you to make the move.

By her a present tommorow, a nce lady-like gift please, and when she asks why, say its your birthday. You want to feel happy on your birthday and when you give the gift your happy.

Go slow, yet steady and dont wait for anything. If she'll only want to meet you at breakfast then make that time a time to remember.

But, if she keeps avoiding you and keeps telling you about boyfriend then well, the games harder and chances are slim...

Answer 5

I suggest you not to interfere coz she's in a relationship with someone else.It means she has feelings for her bf just like feelings you have developed for her.Dont you wanna see her happy with her bf?.How would you feel if someone else snatch your gf from you?
There are many singles out there.You will find someone better.I know its hard,but this one way love just doesnt work.

Answer 6

She is a educated and matured girl. Is she seriousely involved with someone?Ask her first and then tell your intentions.she seems to have made lot of inquiries about you. maybe she is intrested.dont hurry and jump to conclusions. love takes its own time.