i'm 15, he's 16. i've liked him for 3 years, he's liked me.
he asked me how far i'd go on the first date i said pash, he said he'd go pash or further. a guy friend of mien said he's have sex on the first date! i've never actually been on a an official date before but i always thoguht you built up to a pash and sort of just had a peck on the first date! am i dumb? :)
2006-12-13 23:30:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No ur not dumb but dont forget guys think with their ***** and not their mind. Dont be forced into doing anything your not comfortable with and dont be afraid to say no...
Goodluck and i hope you do what u feel is right for you...
2006-12-13 23:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pash is for when you feel pash and are in the right personal circumstances for pash. It is not for him to check off another conquest and shouldn't be a focus for negotiations.
2006-12-14 07:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You are correct! Going "pash" on the first date doesn't leave any adventure for the future does it? I hate to ruin it for the guy but to keep him interested don't let him lead you to do something you may not be ready for.
2006-12-14 07:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say pash, only if you feel the magic.
2006-12-14 07:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by polarbear_9214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should never go all the way on a first date, regardless of how much you like the guy, especially at your age, a kiss on the cheek is as much as you should let him get away with, theres no need to rush to anythin more so soon
2006-12-14 07:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by kydd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not dumb...a peck on the cheek when he drops you home after your first date....respect yourself, your body....a 16 year old boy thinks with his penis most of the time and not his brain.....you on the other hand should use your brain don't be pressured by your peers.....sex is enjoyed by both parties involved not just one....and based on your comments above..you are not ready..
2006-12-14 07:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go very far. Save that for later. You can ruin a really good relationship.
2006-12-14 08:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and second date are for oral sex only. After that you can do whatever you want.
2006-12-14 08:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally i'd say go as far as you feel comfortable with, but since he asked that you can almost assume what his intentions are. and you are still young so you should be careful
2006-12-14 07:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by skayy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! if you sleep with a guy on the first round, that'll make him less interested in you... if you want him, play hard to get ... a little here and a little there ... not more ... if he leaves, than he's not worth it and u should save it for someone who is worth it ... if he stays, than he's earned it...MAKE HIM EARN IT, YOUR WORTH IT!!!! especially if your a virgin ...
NINJA
2006-12-14 07:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by lightblue ninja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋