pullin me back?

Question

i dont think im a tease. but as much as my curiosity and feelings sometimes shows im interested i pull back from expressing2 much of how i feel. i've been talking with this guy4awhile now. educated conversation but we tend 2flirt a fair bit and i like it and he does to . he said something that was abit outta line and i told him that was not what i was comfortable with and he couldnt stop apologizing because he felt like an idiot and hope the respect still remained. it scares me because i think about him alot but we both seem confused about what we want..we say strictly friends but its more than that. we speak about meaningful stuff and althugh we havent known eachother lng we both say we feel an undescribable connection. but the confusion leads to anxiety and sometimes painful confusion m frustr. where we dun knwo what we want/ i feel im holdin itour age differnce. its 6 years. the closer i ge to him the mor i back away.im scared if dun work out. i cun cope wit dat pain

Answer 1

I for one think that the certain 'special connection' is already there.... and the problem is you're afraid but of wat? of trying right? If you try, there's a big possiblity of getting hurt but if you dont.... regrets anyone?? They say there's no harm in trying but.... there are scars....hmmm.... if you like him and he likes you then why not??

Answer 2

I'm in slightly same postition al though hes the same age.
I would say go for it before its too late.
The one i like is now in a relationship and it realli hurts,
go for it before it happens to you to. And forget about the thing he said once yous have been on dates and stuff then yours will realise then what yous want to do.

Answer 3

You need to get youself together. You can't just play with people's feelings like that. If you wanna talk dirty with the guys, make sure you can handle whatever they tell you back.

Answer 4

ok just be friends with benefits thats always a good thing!!!

Answer 5

You are HIGH MAINTENANCE!!!