When a man has a very high sex drive it is an exciting thing for a woman....well not all women, especially if her sex drive is low, there can be all sorts of reasons for this and when she demands fidelity from her man it is fine, but he should also be entitled to satifying sex right?.....so when a man feels that he is no where near getting the attention he needs, and if every avenue to make things work is exhausted, is that then a good excuse for him to look else where and get what he wants from a woman who satisfies his needs, or should he put up and shut up?.......i'm just curious how you men andwomen would answer this.....what do you think a man should do in this situation?
2006-12-13 23:24:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am living this situation now. My girlfriend gets the hump when I talk to some female friends over the internet but will rather walk away when I ask her about things. And this has led me astray more than once.
2006-12-14 00:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men can have low sex drives aswell.Especially if their older with physical or emotional problems.Men having a high sex drive isn`t a turn on.There`s gonna be times when either partner doesn`t want 'sex'.No one wants to be pestered either.If either partner`s looking for sex else where then they should get out of the relationship.It`s swings and round-about`s.Some mum`s turn a blind eye when the dad look`s to His daughter coz He`s got a high sex drive and He`s pestering Her.Having a high sex drive is not an excuse.We`re supposed to be more evolved on the animal scale.It`s a crock of s*it.Just coz You feel like it doesn`t mean You have to go hunting.Any excuse.
2006-12-14 07:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A very good question. From a man's point of view, I think that a love relationship is a complicated one. It means different things to different people and tends to affect people's lives differently. But I think that partners should be compatible from the beginning, and that includes their sex drive as well. I just can't find a justification for infidelity, I am sorry.
2006-12-14 07:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if the guy was truly not satisfied, he should tell her. What's wrong with a bit of honesty???
It also depends whether her libido his low or he is just a sex craving beast! Either way, I think maybe the Sex Therapist is needed!
Why don't couples tell each other what they like and what they don't like when it comes to sex? Surely this is all that it takes? Talk about these things early on!!
2006-12-14 07:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ess-Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a higher sex drive than my partner and she's enlightened enough not to feel threatened if I use mags/videos. Just because I like to get my rocks off more often than her doesn't mean I love her any less. Hope it goes well for you, take care
2006-12-14 07:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by A True Gentleman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first things, there is no such thing as exhaust all avenues. Not feeling like sex deosn't stop him from DIY or the woman giving Bj's or hand jobs.
2006-12-14 07:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by budda m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is incapable of being with someone with a low sex drive then he should leave her rather than cheat on her... There's no point in that... If he wants it that often he should just bash one out when his other half can't give it up to him.
2006-12-14 07:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Respect her and dont cheat on her
otherwise whats the point with being with a woman and messing her and her heart about - there is no point
2006-12-14 07:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Music fan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is the responsibility of the spouse to make sure his/her partner gets the satisfaction he/she needs AT HOME! If it doesn't happen there, it will happen elsewhere!
2006-12-14 07:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well not to be crude but hell either has to DIY or leave cos if he cheats then he can ruin his relationship, so he either puts up with it and DIYs when needed or he leaves an finds some1 who match's his sex drive better.
2006-12-14 07:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋