why men can't keep them selves from looking pretty breastes even when they are with their gf?

Answer 1

I don't think they necessarily look because they are perving. Sometimes its hard not to notice. I know my boyfriend usually has a quick glance sometimes if for example, the girl has huge breasts or is wearing a top so low cut that they are going to fall out at any moment. And I do too, because you can't not see it. And he usually makes a small comment about it to me too so its not like he is perving on the sly, he has just noticed something like you could notice anything else.

If you are perving then you have no respect for your gf. How do you think she feels. She's not good enough so you have to look at everyone elses!

Answer 2

It's instinctual (which doesn't mean we shouldn't control it). I'm not even that into breasts, but tend to notice girls. Obvious oggling should be punished because that's disrespectful, but don't blame your man too much. And studies have shown that on meeting a man in a social situation, a woman will invariably (and subconsciously) glance at his crotch. Women are just a lot more subtle than men.

Answer 3

Just because you are with someone doesn't mean your eyes won't wander from time to time. However, being respectful is not dropping your jaw when you ogle other women and not making unnecessary comments about what you see. Its one thing to look, its another thing to touch. Last I checked, looking isn't cheating and it doesn't mean you like/love your woman less. Twenty bucks says that if you ask a girl, she ogles muscular men or men who just look better than her boyfriend in some way. If she b*tches, I'll bet she's just as guilty as you.

Personally, I'm not the jealous type. I let my man stare and openly tell me that 'that woman has a nice rack'.

Here's why I DON'T care: He's just looking. In fact, I look at them too.

Answer 4

basic primal instinct. It helps form our opinion of the subject in the same way that women check out a man's features.

Some people do it more obviously than others.....

As long as you don't cause offence I don't see any direct harm and you'll definitely not stop everyone doing it.

(Some gfs are too jelous to allow it, but most would understand as long as you don't crush their self esteem!!)

Answer 5

I agree with Blondie_2. My husband doesn't look at another women's breasts unless they're really huge and look out of proportion...but then again...I look at them too if they're that big. He's got a handfull with mine and he's fine with them. :-)

There's a fine line between oggling other women's breasts and glancing at them because of their size or because of what a girl might be wearing to accentuate them. Fortunately for me, it's the latter.

Answer 6

i think, another reason for this is some women are wearing clothes that are revealing. Men who see it tends to look at it even if they are with their gf and women who have different perception in that kind of clothing look ait it also.

Answer 7

Just be respectful when doing it, men can't help it, and women don't even notice when you are doing it most of the time

Answer 8

Because you are a red blooded American Male.

Answer 9

because everyone likes boobies!! Young, old, male, female, straight, gay.......doesn't matter, everyone looks at boobies! But you can be discreet about it!!

Answer 10

Cause breasts are beautiful!