I have moved out before but i can never seem to afford anywhere by myself..I have all my fridge tv e.t.c ready to go..I really don't like the idea of share accomodation as i enjoy my own company..I am sociable but prefer to live on my own or with friends at least...Rent is so expensive for a unit or flat the cheapest option is a pub but stuff that..Maybe someone has a idea i havn't thought of ? Much appreciated
2006-12-13 22:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
living on your own is always expensive,,, have you used every option to try to work out the situation with your brothers?
sometimes, when we grow up,, we need to leave our old relationships /attitudes, behind us, such as fighting with siblings,,,,, and we all have to agree to treat each other as adults, with as much politeness as we would show anyone else,,,,
is it possible to have a talk with the brothers, see if you can reach the point of treating each other with respect, as adults should do,, and discuss the issues you are fighting over?
if not, while you like to live by yourself, having a roomate might be your best solution,,,,,, or else finding a room in someones home,,,,, if you do live by yourself, make sure you have factored in all of your expenses,,,, including rent/food/utilities/transportation etc.,,,, if it seems you cant afford a place right now, save up your money for a few months
the main thing, is to go slow, and be realistic, no matter how much you want to get out right now..
2006-12-13 22:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are currently living with two brothers and you guys fight all the time, the best time to move out is right now. The sooner the better. It will not only be good for your relationship with your brothers, but you don't want to eventually have to one day involve law enforcement into your family affairs.
Unless you can move back in with your parents (assuming that your brothers don't live there as well), the only thing you can really do is find someone you can impicitly trust and move in and roomate with them. Only other option left is homelessness.
2006-12-13 23:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for people who want someone to rent their basement, you could end up living with an adult but he/she would have his/her own part of the house and you would never see each other.
2006-12-13 22:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by AlaskaGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a job or second job....move into the pub just until you can get ahead financially to get a flat....at this point you can't be too choosy..you have to start somewhere.....or find a sugar mama or sugar daddy....good luck
2006-12-13 22:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say whether you are male or female!!! Are there some friends that you could share with??? You could try that!!!
2006-12-13 22:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should try to find someone who needs a house or apartment sitter... :D
2006-12-13 22:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day be gone; very impactual and so effective.
2006-12-13 22:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋