This guy I dated/date, complicated, told me he loved me one day and I got scared off. I told him I didnt want it to get too serious and I think it really hurt him. But now, I think I feel that for him. I told him and he said hes scared and put his feelings aside. I know he still has feelings for me, but... I don't know if he can get over it. Should I keep trying? Should I give up? It is too late? Did I screw it uP?
2006-12-13 22:49:35 · 18 answers · asked by b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, no, don't give up, not ever. Must have been a real beautiful moment, when that guy poured his heart out to you.
I personally know how this feels. I want to explain something, it's not easy, it's hurtful. He knows you love him, he knows you were scared. You keep telling him he took you off guard. Who says you have to agree, a girl needs time to gather her senses,
especially over something like this. he should understand and be besides himself, that you've given this much thought and realized before it was too late. It's too late to say you love someone to their face once they're off the planet. This is a real hard one for me. Please don't give up, not on real love.
God bless us all...
2006-12-13 23:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by lee f 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Things will get better, after all you are only 14. I didn't fall in love 'til I was 17 and I'm still guess and trying to figure out if it's love.. You can't really be told you are emotional and sad person at a young age either. Things will play out well. Good luck. It's not the end of the world. :)
2016-05-24 01:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, you're just acting out what you felt. You did screwed up, but I don't think it's too late. If he really loves you, I think he would understand and give you another chance. Talk to him and be honest of what you're feeling. Don't ever give up, unless he told you so.
2006-12-13 22:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you definitely did'nt screw up..you were a bit scared, thats all. If you love him, dont give up. And if you know he still likes you, just dont go to him and express your feelings..get to know him more and try to understand his feelings..Dont worry, he'll get over it..my advice to you is, just dont give up....believe in yourself..keep the faith..
2006-12-13 22:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by xing eedna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late, especially if he is the one, just give it time. He needs to know you are serious and won't hurt him again. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-13 23:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lookin at the stars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 1or2 time more if still no.Its his bad luck.Go and find some 1 else.
2006-12-13 22:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by Metallica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to grow up before you get into anymore relationships. You have no idea what you are doing.
2006-12-13 22:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its not too late try to talking to hi m and tell him how you feel, if he loves he'll understand
2006-12-13 22:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 25 or younger then forget about it,if your not then their might be something brewing you should go for it
2006-12-13 22:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear.. it is never too late.. just ask for forgiveness as humbly as you can go with him. if he loves you.. he will forgive u.. i am sure.. trust me and trust your love.. love always comes back.
2006-12-13 22:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by usman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋