a black guy ? I ask this question cuz few nights ago, my bf mentioned to me that he would never date or touch a white girl, if he found out that she had slept with a black guy and that only white whores or trash would sleep with blacks. Do you think as he does ?
2006-12-13 22:40:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where I live, some white women have black kids for black men, they want a white man, but the white man doesn't want them because of that. I have a cousin in the same position.
2006-12-13 22:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by kayef57 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what i have been talking about all through this question that people ask about black people. Do you guys think that all Africans adores you or think that white people are better. If you thought so then I'm sorry to disappoint you cause i really cant get involved with a white guy not because of their colour but because of the way they think about us black people and as i answered another question earlier the feeling is mutual.
2006-12-13 23:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK THAT THIS IS TOO MUCH! FOR ME PERSONALLY IT WOULD BE A PROBLEM OLY IF IT HAPPENED WHILE WE WERE DATING, BUT THEN AGAIN, I WOULDN'T DATE HER ANYMORE IF SHE SLEPT WITH ANYONE ELSE. A LOT OF WHITE GUYS HATE TO SEE BLACK MEN WITH WHITE WOMEN, BUT YOUR BF WAS TOO EXTREME IN WHAT HE SAID. I ALSO DON'T FIND AFRICAN-AMERICAN SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE FOR MYSELF, BUT THAT'S MY OWN OPINION! DON'T GET ME WRONG- I AM NOT A RACIST OR SMTH, I KNOW THAT THERE ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE AMONG THEM, BUT THEY ARE JUST NOT MY TYPE. ONE OF MY EX BF ONCE TOLD ME THAT HE WOULDN'T TOUCH A GIRL IF SHE WAS WITH A MUSLIM. I HAVE BEEN WITH ONE, BUT HE KEPT ON TOUCHING ME EVEN AFTER I TOLD HIM!:)))
2006-12-13 22:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think that your boyfriend is a close minded bigot. I was always brought that love knows no color or creed, only love. So, if I had a girlfriend that had slept with a black guy, I wouldn't care at all.
2006-12-13 22:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by devildawg200218 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
first you need to understand what is white trash. we all may have differing views on that definition. My point is we dont even need to get a black guy involved to tear apart your boyfriends argument to point out he has some issues with perception.
If you have an agreed upon definition of white trash and an agreed upon definition of whoring you could prove him wrong by finding a black guy that would sleep with you. (though i am not suggesting your desirability in that regard either)
I actually find white trash being a derogatory term assigned to those who dwell in trailer parks. But, honestly anyone staying in an apartment, or with thier parents are still looking up to that plateau of 'white trash' in status by my own definition. and thats a WHOLE lot of people regardless of race or ethnicity that dont quite qualify for that esteemed title of status at this point in thier lives.
wikipedia:
White Trash is an American ethnic slur with a social class component. It is term usually interchangeable with trailer trash. It is comparable to "honky" in that it is targeted toward white people, but also carries an allegation of low social status and poor prospects (downward mobility). To call someone "white trash" is to accuse that person of being bankrupt of cultural endowment. "White trash" is not a demographic group recognized by sociology...the orgins of the term may come from a racially segregated past, but modern usage of the term places emphasis on the word "trash" or the labeling of someone as socially worthless. It is often used by lower class white people to stigmatize others within their class who are perceived to be more backward than the norm for their class. "White trash" are perceived as having crude manners, abnormally low moral standards, and lack of cultured behavior and/or education. Swearing, smoking, promiscuity, drunkenness, overly loud and animated behavior in public, and gambling (especially the copious purchase of scratch-style lottery tickets) are examples of "white trash" vices. The label might be applied to a household that, for example, lives in a decrepit apartment or trailer, has a large family, lacks indoor plumbing, and has a yard strewn with debris or perhaps a non-functioning vehicle.'
....apparently this is what having slept with a black guy will get you in your boyfriends eyes.
To be honest, I'd have you consider leaving him, maybe not the guy you want to raise kids with. But to each thier own in any event. No major trajedy here, not like the world is running short on human beings any time soon.
2006-12-13 23:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What race is he ? Is he black?.I think he is fishing for information from you to see if you have slept with a black guy.
2006-12-13 22:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not date a man who was so racist, ignorant and uneducated. So, I would not have an issue such as this because a man who would speak like this is way below my caliper of the men I would interact with. Can you say looser. God bless****
2006-12-13 22:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you sleep with and marry a black guy! there's nothing wrong with!!
2006-12-13 22:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO I wouldn't because I would feel like I would always be compared to how sex was with the guy.
2006-12-13 22:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...why would you want to be with someone who would even say something like that....I would kick him to the curb whether you slept with a black guy or not...he is a racist....good luck
2006-12-13 22:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋