check this........there is this girl who is my pal gf,but he alwys complins that her gf doesnt want anything from him and these has lead insecurity in a guy that maybe she got other resources.this has also lead to the girl to become more controlling in the r/ship that it leaves the guy damp n mute,they have tried to talk about it,but it has even become worse.
what do you think a guy should do,make the girl history/
2006-12-13 22:08:31 · 12 answers · asked by good kisser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's trying to show you she does'nt need you!But she does want to be with you
2006-12-13 22:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by UseMyAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is soo independent,she doesnt deserve to be in a relationship.Relationship doesnt seem to serve any purpose.Looks like she is into a relationship to be entitled for a brand name called ''Relationship'' and nothin else.I suggest such people to be single coz she can at least let others live a secure life.
I suggest there needs to be some sorta balance in dependency for both to feel secure.My ex was extremely independent and didnt need me at all.Thats why i had to dump him.
2006-12-14 06:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are All Individuels. I suspect she may have a controlling Family Environment and is wary of replacing her Parents with another "dictator" and is therefore maintaining maximum control. She could of course just be pig headed and unable to compromise because she dosn't understand the partners needs properly. There again; not allowing yourself to be tied down is natural in the modern environment, shes allowed to be independent if the partner can't handle it or dosn't like it he can go elsewhere. If someone is hurting you then its probably best to find someone who dosn't.
2006-12-14 06:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by graliv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't working---and nothing says it has to. Move on and find a real relationship---not one that leaves you feeling empty--it should be natural, not forced. How can you even be interested in this person...get a grip and find a respectful, happy girl-----keep looking until you get the right one,,,they are out there. Merry xmas
2006-12-14 06:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women are very independent and resourceful, this should not interfere with the relationship and make her mannish. The two of them should talk. And if it is unresolvable, then perhaps they are not meant to be together. God bless****
2006-12-14 06:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like getting a loan from the bank. You need to show that you don't need money to be lent money.
Same with relationships. You want to be able to show you don't NEED a relationship to have a relationship.
2006-12-14 07:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and it defend upon the person. its just so happen that most of a girl they dont like to recieve lots from his boyfriend as long as they are not married,girls have a lot of thought that guy dont understand,
2006-12-14 06:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by lea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it good every girl should be independent, she is dependent for love and other things but now every girl wants to be independent and so is she........ if he feel insecure ask him to talk to her and find out
2006-12-14 06:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indepence means that she doesnt really need him.... I hate independent women they are users......
2006-12-14 06:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both you & this guy need to go back to your cave!
2006-12-14 06:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by punkyboygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋