Arguments about the birthday treat?

Question

Well me and b.f were having few arguments about his bday treat. Basically, I was planning to take him out for his bday, then my friends told me not to because boys have to make an effort to buy for girls bday treat. I agreed with them. I told my b.f that its your turn to give me your bday treat to me. he got angry and he said well i did your bday treat for pizza hut. But I was'nt forcing him, i was just generally asking him, but then, I was like is there should be a balance in our relationship?. He was not talkin to me for one day and i don't know what to do? shall i call him to apologize him or what?

Answer 1

Stop putting your friends in the middle of your relationship with your boyfriend. And it is his birthday, you should take him to dinner or for a treat as you say, it is his day. And he should treat you to a special day on your day. Stop putting your friends in your business and do what you feel is best. Think for your self. I would be upset also if I were him. Call and apologize. Good luck and God bless****

Answer 2

Wait a minute---back up---what is all this about? You want to do something as a treat? It is your treat and if he doesn't appreciate the effort,he is a creep and you need to find someone else. What a crumb he is for arguing about his special day. How old are you people? This seems really crazy to me and the answer is simply---respect .You for his day and for him--the effort you made. Now make plans and if they are not what he likes, say goodbye---he'll learn a lesson about being thankful. Merry xmas

Answer 3

Give to your boyfriend what you would want for your birthday. So if you agree with your friends that on your birthday, you would like to take your boyfriend out, then that's the right decision. Obviously, you didn't do that. Call him and apologize.

Answer 4

yes apologize