I expect my man to carry me emotionally in every way possible, to be strong and to lead the relationship - is this to much for a man? Cause it seems that way!! Now I understand why woman become so independant, cause todays men cant do what is expected of them anymore!!!
2006-12-13 21:43:40 · 29 answers · asked by Immortal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesnt sound to me like it is... some guys are lazy.. some guys are strict.. some guys are boring.. sme guys are stupid.. some guys are this and that ... thats why you feel your expecting too much but your not....... its the guys weakness if he cant completely fulfill your other half and carry your emotions like you said..
2006-12-13 21:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Fuck you Yahoo Answer Staff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as the house is clean and there's a hot meal waiting on the table at 6pm I don't think you're expecting too much at all. The woman is, in essence, weaker physically than man and can therefore justifiably be considered weaker emotionally. Still, many men find it difficult initially to break a woman and train it correctly. The easiest and best method of training is with the use of excessive force delivered by means of the back of the hand employed in a sweeping chopping motion whilst shouting loadly the order or action required.
Hope this helped!
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2006-12-15 00:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Dandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course different men have different personalities than eachother. Some may be more a leader, some may be more a follower, or land somewhere in the middle. I think a slight balance is the best thing. I mean, you are not without say either. Yes things are different now a days. Used to be common for the man to work, and support the whole family. But with time, society has reformed and different gender roles are practiced now. So I believe perhaps you may be expecting a little too much. Although, it depends I guess.
2006-12-13 21:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by jason b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you expect so much from a man is this because you are weak?
Women are so much stronger these days and a relationship consists of two people helping each other.
You have a choice. Help steer the ship or become a dead weight anchor.
Do you really want to be told what to do and when to do it ?
I hardly think so.
2006-12-14 00:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes i think every woman likes that , but now things have changed why cuz when women were taken that way they really didn;t have much say in most thing in the family it was all about the man.
Now everything has changed.the stuff the women used to go thur having that was not actually the best if yoou ask me they were under the man in every way, but now men and women live together to share life ,ideas, desisions e.t.c so things have chanded except you are saying you want to eat your cake and have it.
And then again it dependes alot on the man there are some men who just don't know how to express themselves in that way not that they don't want to it's just that they don't see it or understand how to do it.What ever may be the case there are actually alot of varabiles when it comes to this aspect
2006-12-13 22:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well its generally accepted dat a man shud be strong in any relationship but u have to take hold of ur emotions u dont expect him to know how u feel witout telling him.i can only suggest the both of u shud not feel shy in expressing ur feelings to each other in a loving and nice way to make ur relationship stronger.also i do expect u to be independent becos no man wants a woman who proves to be a liability,i do believe u are asking for too much.
2006-12-13 22:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by dubis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want a man to carry you emotionally, you should be stable emotionally when you get into the relationship. Not wanting someone to carry you and be your emotional strength. This may be the very problem, you are coming across to needy. Be strong for yourself, no one wants a weak damsel in distress to care for, unless he is some sick over powering overbearing idiot. God bless****
2006-12-13 21:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think all woman should be independant if not you will be sh*t on, mind you that is my view but i think all this old relationship stuff doesn't work these days, men are not brought up the same to be like that! Society has made most men into pigs, men do not know how to be gentlemen anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!! So goo luck if you can change yours!! xx
2006-12-13 22:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you are expecting a little to much of a person. Women today expect things that are not necessary and put things on people unexpected for no good reason and expect them to pick up the pieces that make no sense at all. Why would you want to give someone that much controll over you? that makes no sense at all and for you to put a question out there like that shows how much controll you are willing to give someone else over your emotions............makes no sense at all be real with yourself and your man
2006-12-13 22:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cannot believe what I'm reading......you want him to lead you........understand why women are so independant these days.........how about relationships being an equal & shared thing? No obviously this has not crossed your mind! I feel sorry for the burden your boyfriend has to carry!
2006-12-13 21:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by punkyboygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are lots of men like that..the only way to get a man to do everything for you is to be really bossy..a nag and give him a hellish life otherwise he will just go and do what he wants because he thinks you wont care...Treat them mean to keep them keen...
2006-12-14 00:04:54 · answer #11 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋