i am underage and dating a guy that is 23. my parents dont know and it has been going on for a year, and i have had to do lots of lying and sneaking out... etc. the thing is im really close with my parents, and i hate myself for it! even if i break up with him it will be a part of my past forever! am i horrible for doing this? it would break my parents if they knew i was such a liar! i feel guilty... is my life ruined?
2006-12-13 20:00:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you really love this guy, you should break up with him before your parents find out. They could hit him with a statutory rape charge and he'll be labled a pedophile for the rest of his life.
2006-12-13 22:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No your life isnt ruined. You are not horrible. U are a girl in love with your bf and your paents but u need to be honest because they will go mad when they find out. Tell your bf that he has to make an effort to make your parents understand and also i suggest not sleeping together because they will not understand ever if they found out and also could get him arrested for rape. Just be honest with everyone and stop beating yourself up about it. If anyone says that u cant be in love at 16. it is a lie. I was and we were together from the ages of 14 till 19. Good luck.
2006-12-14 07:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by stacey f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life is definately not ruined, and your not a horrible person. This is all part of the teenage years!! Be careful, try to be respectful to your parents, but for gods sake have fun while youre young!! I think the main thing your parents are probably worried about is your safety. If they found out about this they would know you lied, but theyre your parents, they love you, and theyll be the first people to forgive you. Just keep yourself safe!
2006-12-14 05:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your under 18 the creep needs to be put in jail. You know what the answer is young lady.
2006-12-14 05:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, it is impossible to ruin your life forever, everything is temporary in this life, you'll get over it, enjoy whatever is fun, soon enough you'll be old
2006-12-14 07:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, you are not a horrible person...he is......your life ruined, no....his, yes if relationship is found out....your just young and stupid........and he is a criminal in action..
2006-12-14 05:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no....that`s part of youth...
2006-12-14 05:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by lara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋