I don't think she's playing hard to get. I think she's trying to be nice to you but she's hoping you'll go away. Sorry to say this but I don't think she likes you dude....
2006-12-13 20:19:28
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answer #1
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answered by buzzbait0u812 4
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Did you actually ask her out to do something special to show her that you really like her and are interested? If a guy keeps calling and seems to be showing an interest but never makes the move and asks to go out on a "date" to do something special she is left wondering whether she read him wrong and maybe he is not interested at all!! AT some point it becomes a turn off when a guy shows an interest but doesn't make the move and ask for a date. I'm sure it is hard and guys don't want to get rejected but isn't better to ask clearly and directly by saying: I'd like to take you out for dinner or lunch or even coffee but whatever it is it must be a direct question so youcan get a direct answer. If you just show up at the library and call her up without ever clearly asking for a date how do you know she isn;t playing hard to get? Women don't like to be just strung along either as in phone calls and "pal"-ling around. Women like to be pursued and captured by a real men who know what they want!! A man needs to be clear and actually offer something and she will either say yes or no. Maybe she is not sure and she is hoping you will convince her!!!!
2006-12-14 04:06:32
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answered by doobs 1
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Chance would be a fine thing!!!
If someone was interested in me then I would be as straight and upfront as possible, I have been messed about by members of the opposite sex in the past and have no time for game playing.
As a woman of 46 I feel that I am more than qualified to answer this question.
By the way, it is not me that the questioner is referring to.....I am not a librarian!!
2006-12-14 04:09:22
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answered by PomOnTour 3
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Women never stop playing hard to get. I date women older than 46, and it's the same story - though more subtle than your experiences.
2006-12-14 03:48:20
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answered by ericscribener 7
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Yeah, sorry man, but I have to agree with Buzzbait on this one - this woman is really not interested in you.
Stood you up 3 TIMES?!
You call (repeatedly) and her answer every time is 'I'll call you later?'
leave her alone and move on
2006-12-14 04:29:22
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answered by Dan 2
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Women will always play hard to get no matter how old or young they are. From what you are saying it does sound like she's playing hard to get. Don't give up cuz she wants you to chase her.
2006-12-14 03:48:52
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answered by Lady B 3
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She is not playing hard to get. What you described is "not interested". Sorry, but time to move on.
2006-12-14 16:44:18
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answered by Lisa B 2
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No, at this point you are stalking her.
2006-12-14 03:48:40
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answered by BlueEyes25 1
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