anywhere even though he badly wants it to. I had a talk with god and my mom (who is deceased) and told them that I was not sure of the new guy and whether or not it was meant to be, and that I needed them to send me a sign to let me know what I need to do, as I always do when I get in a sticky situation. Less then two days have passed and the love of my life sent me a text message even though I had not spoken to him for months. He said he just wanted to see what was up, and that he thought about me. Whenever I have asked for a sign in the past I have always gotten one almost immediately, but because I was in love with this guy I don’t know if the devil testing me. I don’t know if he (the love of my life) is or was just in need of a booty call or is this my sign. What do you think?
2006-12-13 19:31:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don’t want any smart answers just because I talk to my mom because that’s an important part of my life and I hope you will respect that. I just wanted to put this question out there because him contacting me is purely out of the blue and when I suggested that maybe he wanted a booty call he said sorry and told me to have a good night, but that could also be game. My thing is with no contact for a few months why now. Why less then two days after I talked to my mom. I broke off the relationship because he told me he would be moving out of the state this summer and my take on it was I would rather hurt now then hurt later.
2006-12-13 19:32:02 · update #1
i totally respect your talkin with spirits i do to.but like you say it may be a test.or sign,first how do you feel?are you in love?or are in love with x?maybe you need some alone time for while to regroup,maybe they both are wrong for you.
2006-12-13 19:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also talk with my father who is deceased it is an important part of the grieving process...so no there is nothing wrong with you there. re guarding the message from the love of your life....you have to remember why you two are no longer together. there had to be something amiss if you and he are not a couple even if you loved him so much. it could be a sign though. the only way to know is to talk to your ex and find out his motives. if he really is missing you and wanted to rekindle a romance then you need to weigh the pros and cons of the relationship you are in compared to the one with your ex. good luck.
2006-12-14 03:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect that you talk to your mom, but maybe this is a decision that would be best made by you. Go with what you think, it won't be the worst decision of your life even if you make the wrong one. You'll just become a stronger person.
2006-12-14 03:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a sign, go with it, God has never failed you before
2006-12-14 03:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋