Well, there's this guy whom I was involved with , we had a brief sexual realtionship, and everytime I see him,at school he smiles, like chessing,(which I don't understand) but I'm confused because he says he's not intrested, because he thinks that I'm prank calling his phone,but then he tells me that he doesn't know how he feels about me, then when I tell him that I 'm going to stop calling him, he says well, do what you have to do, and I'm like what!! Then I found out that he told people about our realtionship so, and we were together after all this happened, and he played footsies with me..so can someone explain the smiling part, and his other behavior
2006-12-13 19:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he used you for sex. period.
2006-12-13 19:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an asshole. And u dont desearve that kind of treatment especially since u gave up something that was valuable to u. Move on girl, he is not worth it. Guys like him always get back what he has done to others. In the meantime make sure that the next guy u get involved with is more interested in ur mind than whats down ur pants.
2006-12-14 03:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys don't get as much practice dealing with emotions as women do, for one thing. When something as powerful as sex enters the picture it's even harder for us. We are swamped with feelings of lust and affection both, and we become gibbering idiots about it. It appears that this guy likes you but isn't sure how to say it without being awkward and looking uncool, so he sometimes pretends to be disinterested when he really isn't.
Maybe you could gently take him aside for a private but safe chat about things - outdoors in a public park so you can't get intimate and he won't feel trapped and can relax. Good luck.
2006-12-14 03:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by hznfrst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you are both very young. you will deal with a lot more of these type of idiots. just make sure you always have the upper hand. dont tell him your not going to call him, just dont call him then see what happens.
2006-12-14 03:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋