ok so my ex n i have been talkin again. we still love each other very much but i dunno where we are goin we are basically the title without the title anyway its really confusin. but so he puts me in this secret santa thing with his family n i sed yes at first but then after they drew the names i started thinkin n feelin awkward bout it. i told him no n i dunno i jsut dont want anything to go wrong so today i jsut told him ill do it cuz he sed he took the persons name which meant he was gonna need to buy 2 gifts. i got his bros gf n the thing is i dont like her at all but shes like almost married to her bro so i do need to respect her so any ideas on wat ot get her? do u think its ok that im in the secret santa? my ex says he wants to be in it cuz im still very close but our relationship is so confusin rite now but i do respect him n his family n i do love him very much. plz give me some advice n ur thoughts. thank you.
2006-12-13 19:08:16 · 6 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is like war, easy to start, hard to end, and almost imposible to forget. You don’t have to agree with your ex’s way of celebrating. It’s Christmas and you open your gifts from Santa on Christmas Eve or Christmas morning. The holidays are supposed to be a joyous and happy time of year. It can be tough deciding where you spend the holidays and with who. Keep things as simple as possible. I’ve learned that running all over the world visiting everyone in efforts to please create nothing but “Christmas chaos”. The season isn’t about the shuffle. It’s not about giving and receiving gifts from one to another. It’s ultimately about one gift and the real reason we celebrate the holiday: Christ’s birth. The season should be about love and peace so go to Walmart, they always have low prices: http://www.walmart.com/
2006-12-13 19:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by JFAD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh guy, basically pass to Walmart and go searching. locate something inexpensive yet hilarious! Like a lint curler, kiddy toothbrush holder, glitter glue, a loaf of bread, a field of pickled radishes, flower seeds, a spiderman toothbrush, a minature horse statue, chicken treats. The record is going on! My own wide-unfold might could desire to be a jar of something pickled, like radishes, pickles, onions and so on. stable success and basically have relaxing! that's meant to be awkward!
2016-10-14 22:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really that big of a deal that you have to buy someone a present? Not really. Just get the girl something she'd like and then after Christmas is over with decide what you want with the guy.
2006-12-13 19:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not add up to well. It sounds like you would be better off either marring the guy or moving far far away.
2006-12-13 19:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely awkward. There's only one thing to do. Run away. Well, get your gift first. Then run away.
2006-12-13 19:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in being in the secret santa if that's what you want to do but don't do it to please someone else....please yourself!
2006-12-13 19:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋