What does it mean when you have not talked to a guy a in few months since you guys broke up and then out of?

Question

the blue he sends you a message and says I passed by your house on the way to the airport and thought about stopping by so that's why I sent you a message. I said to him I thought you were not talking to me anymore and he said that he was. So I then asked him why did he think about stopping by because I really wanted to know, but instead he said sorry for asking and told me to have a good night. I sent him a message back telling him that I was only asking and that I am sorry if it came across the wrong way, but he never responded. What would you make of this. And when he said that he was on his way to the airport was it because he wanted me to ask him where he was going. I missed him and I had been thinking about him, but I just assumed that we were done so I don't know why he thought about me nor do I know what to make of him contacting me. What do you think? Also why did he not answer me back when I said sorry for him taking what I said the wrong way.

Answer 1

I will tell you exactly why cause this has just happened to me..... It is because men are crazy. They don't want us but then they do. They can't make up their minds. Like I said they have no clue what they want. A few days ago my ex who hurt me pretty bad out of the blue called. We talked and he wanted to come by this weekend. I was very excited but then tonight he started acting weird. Then he tells me that he doesn't feel the same way about me that I feel for him. Thank goodness I nipped this in the bud. I asked him when and what was it I did that made him think that I was so in love with him. I told him that I liked him and thought he was great but I couldn't deal with his mood swings so basically I told him not to call me anymore or contact me in any other way. That is your best bet cause if it didn't work to begin with it most likely won't ever. Don't even sweat it. Go have lunch tomorrow with your girlfriends, buy some shoes, get a pedicure or whatever it is that makes you feel good but for heavens sake don't think about the man. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

hmmm.... sounds like a jerk to me! LOL seriously, that's just too weird. And if he actually wanted to talk to you instead of just messing with you, he would have responded. Forget about him!