i have a crush....
i have optimistic beliefs that he liked me too... only to find out he is in a relationship with someone... ouch!
then his best friends which also happens to be my close friend found out that i had feelings for him... and always teases me about it... it so happens that in our physical education the guy i like told his best friend that he wanted to be paired up with me (probably cuz we're both short and i showed dancing potential last time..)...
i'm always trying to avoid him because i dont want to get hurt and have so much drama in my life... but his best friends wants to pair us up because he thinks we're a good match.. i told him to stop but he wouldnt...
i dont want anything to do with him and his relationship ..
i dont want to get hurt...
but i still want to be his friend..
what should i do?
2006-12-13 18:48:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do not want drama I say stay away. Getting involved is the drama of the triangle. Also think about this if you were with him would u.want some other female trying to get close.
Being his friend is not a good idea either, Why? because you are already in the first stage of emotional attachment which is you are attracted. Being his friend is just going to show you more traits that are going to make you more attracted. Now the quick sand of attraction has got you and will be pulling you in. B. 4. u. know it your in toooooooo deeeeeep.
Go with you first intuition stay away there is someone for you out there. Don't look then they will find you.
2006-12-13 19:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ecala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say "no". And if he wants to be with you, wait until they break up. Don't get involved in a lot of drama! And it's also hard to be friends if you have feelings for each other. Just think it over- do you really wanna hook up with someone who is taken?
2006-12-14 02:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by purringout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore what his friends say and do you can be paired with the guy and still be friends yes his feelings will grow for you after hes spent a good amount of time with you so he may grow to like you as you like him so leave that up to him but if you do hook up make sure hes single okay
2006-12-14 02:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't flirt with him, and make sure everyone knows that you don't want anything more than friendship from him right now LOL that's for starters! If you want, you can dance with him, but it's not very good on his part that he wants to dance with someone he knows had feelings for him when he's in a relationship
2006-12-14 02:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by High On Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being a hypocrite
if you really really want him
you have to break them up!
be a bi*ch and make his girlfriend look a bi*ch
so he will leave her and fall for you
if you cant do this...just give up on him
2006-12-14 02:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by happy-angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about him.... dont dance with him... just dont talk to him unless necessary...
avoid him at all times... until you get over him...
2006-12-14 03:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋