Do women like you to touch them when they are dancing or do they like you buy them a drink?

Question

What is the best way to pick up a women at a night club ?
Should i just ask for ph no ? Should i ask her if she wants to dance ? I need some good ideas on how to pick up women or where ?
thanks

Answer 1

There are 10k different ways to approach a woman at a nightclub, but your success is going to depend on your presentation. If you're asking this question, then you need to find some guys with skills and have them teach you. Bottom line, if you have the skills, you can ask her just about anything, anywhere, and get away with it.

Always remember to be yourself, but that you may need to change who you are to make yourself attractive and effective.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Women likes to feel sexy... Touching at places that is too private is not suitable and uncomfortable for most ladies and drinks for ladies is recommended if it's in a restaurant than a clubbing location. Haha~

Just go up and say hi, cut the cheesy pick up lines. A sincere approach of you wanted to be friends will do just nice. After if you feel the connection, ask for no. If not, move on.

Answer 3

Each situation calls for a different action. Ask to dance. Half way through the song move your body in close. wait a few seconds, then put your hand on one side of her waist . If she does not put her hand on you at all or pushes back, wait for the song to end. Then shake hands and say thanks for the dance. From that point move on and ask someone else.When you get a positive vibe then you can buy a drink, ask for a phone number and such. Dont buy a drink before asking to dance. It`s a waste of your time, money and her time as well. She would feel obligated to talk to you opposed to really wanting to talk to you.

Answer 4

Honestly..you shouldn't touch a woman unless it is invited. If you are dancing and a specific dance requires touch...then go for it. But be respectful.
If you are going to night clubs to meet women...yes you should ask them to dance...or even just chat with them. I wouldn't go after buying them drinks right away. Some women..count on guys to buy them drinks so that they won't have to pay themselves.
Just be respectful...this might be your future wife some day!

Answer 5

I have always believed that buying them a drink first up is an invite to them using you. Just try making conversation with them, ask them to dance, then offer them a drink by saying something along the lines of " Oh I'm all hot now, I might just go and grab a drink, can I grab you something while I'm there?

Just remember, be yourself, relax, woman don't like fake posers or show-offs, they don't bite (unless it's pleasure)

Good luck :)

Answer 6

if your looking for a relationship walk up to a women you find attractive,say hey,don't use any lame pickup lines,ask her would she like to dance then when the dance is over ask her what kind of stuff shes into and go from there

if you want a one night stand buy her some drinks get her drunk go from there
if that's what your looking for your a slob though

Answer 7

Dancing with a woman means pretty much nothing. In order to spark a woman's attention, you have to be able to talk. You can meet a woman by dancing, then at a music pause, invite them to the bar for a drink, on you of course. This gives you a time to talk, and the dance floor allows you the nerve, surrounded by people, to ask a woman to go talk with you.

Remember, you have to spark someone's interest. If your work life doesn't interest yourself, it won't interest her. Talk about interesting hobbies or interests you have, and more importantly, ask her a question for every statement you make about yourself.

Answer 8

I wouldn't turn down free drinks! You should know by the way she's dancing, either with you or just next to you, if she wants to be touched or not. Some of us like to show off and tease and touching is all part of it.

Answer 9

When you ask a women to dance, they want to do just that, dance. You don't come up and say,"Hey, wanna go get felt up on the dance floor", you simply say wanna dance. harmless as we had hoped, that rarely is the case. Dancing means dancing, just dancing. Offer to buy a drink, wait for the answer and don't expect anything other than paying for it.

Answer 10

Well I am almost 23.....so I prefer when a guy asks for the phone number....ask for a dance but I dont like to be touched a lot while dancing.....I usually dont trust guys to go and buy me a drink but if I am with the guy and see him get the drink then it is nice for it to be bought.