we were arguing again
2006-12-13 17:21:14 · 14 answers · asked by eman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the best thing you can do is let her go. She can do so much better.
I don't believe that anyone "just screws up". I think we all say what we really want to say, but may have been holding in for awhile, when we are arguing.
If you're willing to call her a whore now, what is next? Does the verbal abuse turn to emotional abuse? Then the emotional abuse turn to physical abuse? You really DON'T deserve her.
2006-12-13 17:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what is the reason that you guys are arguing and to that extent that you have to call her a whore? What is wrong with you how could you make such a bad joke? Look you should try to explain yourself if there is an explanation for what you did at all. In her shoes I could never live with a guy or marry one who thinks of me like a whore. If you said that she was a whore then in the back of your mind you think that she is. Sort out your issues with the way you look at your fiancee before you decide to plung into this marriage. If you said what you were arguing about and how it happended then I could go more indept into a full explanation. All I could say is that you should think about this and according to what is what you should talk to her without arguing.
2006-12-14 01:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, you really did it this time. If it was me there would be no way you could convince me that you love me. I hope she is more forgiving than that for your sake. I think the best way for you to convince her is to truly from your heart tell her day after day, over and over again how sorry you are, and you had better treat her with respect. Respect and love go hand in hand. She will always remember this. wow, I cant believe you said that. Maybe you should get some counseling or something because you have issues.
2006-12-14 01:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by meeahcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get some counciling before you get married. What you did should not be taken lightly and you should find out why you did such a thing. Personally I would be seriously reconsidering marrying you and she might be too so you better get on your knees and start some world class groveling and apologizing. Good Luck, cause for me this would be a deal breaker. That and the B word are grounds for a serious fight, if not a total break up
2006-12-14 01:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we woman get pretty offended by that one. If she is your Fiance' then I am sure she knows you love her. I can suggest letting her know you are truly sorry not by flowers or cards but you . Tell her how you really feel. Stop arguing . Be a Lover not a fighter. Love on !!!
2006-12-14 01:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. just tell her that your sorry. be honest w/ one another. if your fiance is not talking to you because you called her a "whore" then you need to move on. she must've said "i do!" for a reason. lovers call each other names all the time and don't mean it. im sure you love her, just tell her that your sorry and I was just having a bad day. Im sure she is not innocent from calling you names!
2006-12-14 01:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by renee b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize...I guess. Sure you can give a diamond or flowers or whatever. But, in the end this little screw up is going to be a screw up that she will never forget. Just another brick on the wall unfortunately.
2006-12-14 01:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by stop_staring_please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For future reference, don't call her a whore
2006-12-14 01:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by jen_420_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abuse starts early in your family? it appears its happening. words cut like a knife. she knows she ain't a whore so she ain't mad at the accusation she is mad at u called it that meaning u are saying loud and clear U DON'T TRUST HER to call her that. why? say ur sorry and explain why u said that really.. i mean really.. and if she cant accept it there's no "us" anymore to you
2006-12-14 01:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really screwed up.....3 words you never say....B*tch...whore....C*nt...she will never forget that you said this....she may forgive you but she will never forget, let her know that you are truly sorry and you will never say it again.....and do just that...NEVER SAY IT AGAIN
2006-12-14 01:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by glduke2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋