Does this mean I was used??

Question

My exboyfriend that I hadn't seen in 2 yrs came by my home to see me.He started off telling me about his new girlfriend he's been with for a year and how he loves her and is going to marry her in a few weeks.Says she's pregnant with his child.Even shows me her picture.He then proceeds to tell me how he still loves me and there's noone like me..all kinds of stuff.We ended up fooling around.Afterward he took me to his parents house and I spent a little while there.She called him while I was there..he left me to go talk to her and when he was done,he came out and took me home.We talked on the phone a few times after that but never saw one another again.His now wife found out about it and he called me in front ofher and told me he only said those things to try to get in my pants.................I'm confused by all of this..What does it mean?Did he use me?..If I mean so much to him,why is he with her?

Answer 1

He used you, but it's good he married the mother of his child. I only hope his past actions don't predict the future distrust of his wife and child. Save yourself worry, remember the lesson, and move on to a man that will not use you.

Answer 2

Your first clue should have been the part when he tells you all about his new girlfriend, especially the wedding and the child on the way. That in itself should have told you that it would end badly. After he told you all that and then told you how much you meant to him, why didn't you ask him why he is with her if you mean so much to him before letting him get into your pants? He is a disgusting jerk, and you , I am afraid, are a guillable fool. Move on, before he makes an even bigger fool of you. By the way, weren't you the least bit suspicious when he came around all of a sudden after not seeing or speaking to you for two years? I am really sorry you got hurt, and the guy definitly took advantage of you, but you were also partly responsible. All the signs were there. You deserve so much better than this. So call the guy tell him what an *** he is and find someone who is truly worthy of your affection.

Answer 3

WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE!! You have used and abused and you let it happen...You must have DOORMAT written on your forehead!! You are just a booty call for this guy and I guarantee you aren't the only girl he has on the hook. His poor GF , she's pregnant and this jerk is exposing her to all sorts of possible STDs. What kind of love does he have for her and their unborn baby. Plus what diseases are you being exposed as well, better go get yourself check...You know, AIDS, Clyamidia, Gonorrhea , etc...Any self-respecting person would not sit there and listen to an ex talk about his GF and all that other crap. You should have told him then and there, that you were very happy for him but that if he didn't mind you needed him to leave because you had something or somewhere to go and show him the door. He is a user, manipulative,egomaniac and you are a patsy. Are you that desperate for a man? If he calls , say excuse me, I'm busy right now and hang up...EVERYTIME he calls! he'll get tired if you keep sending him that kind of message. Go out with friends and enjoy yourself, some other guy will come along soon enough, don't worry. It may take a while to get over the hurt, but better a little pain now instead of a lifetime of misery.

Answer 4

First of all...wow. Second get some ice cream and some romantic movies and have yourself a nice cry. Not to be negative but yeah babe, you got so used. It happens to the best of us, literally. He didn't want you back, he was tryin to have his cake and eat it too...which in a sense he did. When I saw my ex walking towards my door, I turned the sprinklers on him. Why? b/c I had moved on and wanted to leave things just as they were, w/o him in my life. His wife will attack you b/c she's the type of women to yell at the "problem" but not the source, i.e. her husband/ your ex. Are you at fault? Maybe but only 15%. He might be with his wife b/c of the child, or for other reasons between the two of them. And you might have meant something to him once, but as you described things, with his parents house and the phone call and basically dropping you off, you were just a return to his past, where he felt comfortable, and self assured. He could've left money on the night stand and it would've been better then how rude treated you. But You sound like a sweet woman. Do your crying b/c everyone needs to cry once in awhile. It doesn't make you weak, it makes you human. And forget your ex ever existed. Have a girl's night out, and wake up with the joy of haven't the trash the life, put out on the curb. Hope I helped.

Answer 5

You were used, definitely. But what I don't get is why YOU did this. He told you he loves someone, is engaged, and she's pregnant, yet you still messed around with him. I hold him responsible, yes, but he is a guy and a guy thinks with his dick...this is to be expected that he would try to get into your pants. But why did YOU let him? You are a woman, you are better than this! It is your responsibility to be smarter than the man!

Answer 6

With the ways things are, it really sounds like it. Besides, you know that he was going to get married and he said that he loves the other girl. So if he truly loves you, then he wouldn't be with any other girl.

Answer 7

Nope, it basically skill sharp taking photos. LOL! I have been given the "S" sharpshooting on my .40 5 qual ribbon interior the army. i will have had the "E" for expert....yet I acccidently popped a around. i attempted to tell the instructor that the bullet went at present with the aid of the hollow of the bullet in the previous it.....yet he wasn't procuring it...and observed the popped shell on the floor. Dang. I rather much had him offered, too. The "S" grew to become into nevertheless cool although. "Sharpshooter" sounds greater effective than "expert" besides.

Answer 8

sorry to tell you this but you don't mean any thing to him see he probably 1 wasn't getting any from his women cuz she was preg. 2 he was probably wanting some before he got married face it he loves his wife

Answer 9

sad to say yes you had been used by your ex. he told you that in front of his wife. he got what he wants and he never made plans to see you after that.

Answer 10

He used you. He's a jerk. The question is, why is this girl with him when she knows he's a cheating jerk? And why are you even thinking about him when you know he's a cheating jerk? He's a lying, cheating jerk! Stay away from him.