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Im going out with this guy and its a lond distance relationship, but i still miss my ex bf more than ever. And i dont want to hurt my curent bf. Me and him started going out not even 3 weeks after me and my ex broke up.. what should i do??? Should i tell my bf or should i not tell him???

2006-12-13 16:54:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF FIRST, YOU
BROKE UP WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU STILL CARE FOR
AND 3 WEEK LATER GOT WITH SOME ONE ELSE. THAT NOT
GOOD.THAT WHY YOU ARE FEELING AS YOU DO, BUT
KNOW YOU NEED TO DO THE RIGHT THING AND TELL
YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND HOW YOU REALLY FEEL
THEN GO FROM THERE. AS FOR YOUR EX. IF YOU WANT
TO GET BACK WITH HIM THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO
TAKE TIME TO FIQURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT SO MAY BE
YOU NEED TO BE BY YOUR SELF THEN SEE WHAT HAPPEN.

2006-12-13 17:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1 0

Usually getting back with an ex is not a good idea. Think about why you broke up. Most likely things have not changed. You broke up for a reason without fighting for it or working things out. Ask yourself with your current and ex, would you be happy with exactly how things are in ten years. If your answer is no but it might change. Run, do not walk away. Do not put up with something now that won't be okay later.

2006-12-14 01:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy L 2 · 0 0

Well in defense for the sap thats dating you now I'd say ditch him before you ruin his self asteem by hooking up with someone else. Just tell him its not working out. Its better to get dumped than cheated on and it sounds like you would if the op presented itself. Go find the right man and leave the ex alone. As others have said you broke up for a reason why put both of you through it again

2006-12-14 01:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Doc 3 · 0 0

Well... in order to answer that question, you have to step outside of yourself and be your best friend. Figure out who's better for you and why. Generally speaking though, getting back together with and ex just ends in heart break. Basically, you end up going through the exact same cycle as you did the last time and break up for the same reason. Sometimes it works though, but only if you've both changed. But, yeah. Just take a step out and look at the pros and cons. Most likely, you'll end up happy with your decision too.

2006-12-14 01:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by sexi ladi 2 · 0 1

You should tell him, its really unfair to him not to know your in love with someone else. If you are still in love with your ex then you prob. shouldn't keep the relationship going. It would be unfair to the current bf if he falls for you and you cannot return those feelings because you still love your ex. You should also consider telling your ex how you feel as well. Good luck!
-NmD!

2006-12-14 01:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0 0

what u r doing isnt wrong, u cant help ur feelings, is there a chance of u getting back with ur ex??? if there is then u should tell ur current boyfriend so that he now's whats going on!!! trust me it will hurt more if u wait more! but on the other hand if there isn't a chance of u getting back with ur ex and u do like ur current boyfriend u shoud just keep it to urself and let time tell... good luck

2006-12-14 01:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by →Sasha← 3 · 1 0

OH this guy is just a rebound guy if your tired of him already. but i dont agree with getting back with your ex, their your ex for a reason...boot this guy out the door and your next relationship will be better. you need to find someone that will help you get over you ex.

2006-12-14 01:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Do yourself and your boyfriend a faver,tell him you no longer want to be with him and go back to your x.Just make sure you r truthful with him,he might not want to hear that you want your x back but its beter then making up somthing that will make him think he did somthing wrong

2006-12-14 01:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1 0

brake up with the guy and go back to your old bf he might still love you

2006-12-14 01:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by im always right 3 · 0 0

I agree with the first post,dump them both.Spend some time on yourself and learn to understand what you want in life.

2006-12-14 00:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by racquel 4 · 0 1

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