it is something that i have wondered because i can never catch a break with wemon maybe i need to be more accertive
2006-12-13 15:28:59 · 22 answers · asked by avshockeyfanatic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Women love bad boys. They'll settle for you when they've had their fill of them.
2006-12-13 15:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no.....nice guys don't finish last.....if you look closely they actually make out better than the supposed 'bad' guys. Seriously, take a good look around you and you'll see what I mean. I know you're talking out of some anger......every guy has been there due to the circumtances where many women tend to flock to few men, so it makes it very competitive for us. But if you look past all the garbage on tv and the internet, etc. etc......you will see the truth out there walking in the mall, eating at a fine restaurant, at the ballpark, etc. It's not your nice guy image that is keeping you back from a girlfriend or whatever you are looking for.....it is your own internal beliefs of what 'nice' guy means. Your own negative vibes about yourself can keep you back just as your own positive vibes can push you ahead.
2006-12-13 23:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by brewbeer212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true, nice guys finish last. However, so do jerks. It's the GOOD guys that finish FIRST.
Good guys are nice, confident, strong, in control and don't take ****. They are respectful and treat others the way they are treated. They never get walked on. They are dependable. They can also be jerks when they need to be. Notice all of these things are STRONG attributes. Girls want strong guys, not jerks, ok? And I'm not talking about muscles here!
THIS is the kind of guy girls wants. Guys always say girls go for the jerks and that 'nice guys finish last....' blah blah blah. It's not true men, be a good guy and you'll finish first. If you're a nice guy trying to be a jerk, you will never get anywhere with that either. Be confident, strong and nice and you'll get any girl you want. Good luck!
2006-12-13 23:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by YummyRemmy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try catching women instead of wemon.
Nice guys finish last because they are slow learners.
2006-12-13 23:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep this in mind:
The perfect person is looking for YOU, too!
My advice is that you remain HONEST and COMFORTABLE with the man that you are.
Likes attract.
People with common interests gravitate towards each other. If you try to be someone other than who you truly are, you will attract those who do not compliment your personality.
Be CONSISTENT.
If you are a "nice" guy, "nice" women will discover that facet about you and make themselves available. Then, you will have the "chore" of deciding WHO you will want to be with in your life.
Try not to gauge your success with women by the antics or moves made by other men. Just BE YOURSELF and the women whose personalities are in line with yours will come.
If you are shy, and I mean so reserved that you stammer and run away from assertive women, perhaps you should examine WHY you are this way and make the necessary changes to become more confident. People are people you know, and we ALL have insecurities. So, the woman you meet may have fears of her own and as a defense, may appear not to care for your gentleness or kind spirit.
That will change when she realizes you are the "real deal." (smile)
Good luck to you my friend, and thanks for posting.
2006-12-13 23:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Women are attracted to confidence. Unfortunately, a**holes tend to be extremely confident because they truly do not care about the feelings of others or what others think. Nice guys do value others' feelings and often their subtlety is mistaken for a lack of confidence. It wouldn't hurt to be more assertive in your interactions with women, but try not to stray too far from your nice guy roots.There are more than enough a**holes out there already.
2006-12-13 23:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Stand Up Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, atleast to an extent. Most nice guys act like the girl is there life, they have to be with her and talk to her 24/7, as if he has no life of his own. They act like doormats, do anything and everything she wants, always try to pamper her, etc.
If your nice, witty, have a life of your own, make her have to initiate things with you sometimes, stick up for yourself, etc, those type don't finish last.
Pretty much be a man and not a nice guy wuss.
2006-12-13 23:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should learn to spell
"wemon" might like you more..
other than that
depends who your tryin to "catch a break" with
go for the right chick..
personally
my opinion is
bad guys are sexy...
2006-12-13 23:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by asphyxia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assertiveness is important.... but not overly aggressive or demanding.
Women like a man who shows confidence in himself, but not arrogance.
Nice is good. Nice enough to bring flowers or other small gifts, nice enough to be romantic with her.... and nice enough be there when she needs you when things aren't going well.... like if her dog is sick.
Nice enough to be a doormat for people to walk on..... nope. Women have no respect for that.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-13 23:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Nice guys are the marriage type. As far a s high school and casual dating goes... nice dude are outta luck.
2006-12-13 23:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Prophesizer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's strange but one of my friends just post that on his xanga. But no, nice guys don't finish last. The girl will love you and really appreciate it later on.
2006-12-13 23:30:58 · answer #11 · answered by M ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋