a women who is a hard worker,repectfull, non smoker, non drinker, non drug user, I have been told I am attractive, funny, and a lot of fun to be with as I like to laugh and cut up etc, everytime a man ask for a date, they stand me up, never call and cancel nothing, before we are to meet for our so called date we have wonderful conversation and then nothing, this is not a one time happening it has happen repeatly, what is the problem? Am I considered to boring cause I don't dink or do drugs, or put out on first dates, they stand me up and never hear from them again, whats the problem???
2006-12-13 15:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you and how fat are you? It sounds like your dates show up to check you out but leave without staying to say hello. Better work on your looks. You say that you're attractive, but that doesn't mean anything coming from you. It sounds like you're one of the many women in America who delude themselves into thinking that they are attractive when they are not.
2006-12-13 19:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are probably afraid to go out with you because you are too smart. Men are not the sharpest crayon in the box. They feel intimated by smart woman. Try being just the girl next door, not to smart and a little giddy. This will attrack the guys.
If nothing else, it will get you foot in the door of the dating world, you know, a little experience to pick and choose.
Good luck
2006-12-13 15:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Recovery Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop datin losers n go for men in ur category. dont date them till after havin conversations wit them to find out if they really interested do u get to the dates lates it might b that u so attractive that when u take too long to arrive they think u not comin n split does the possibility exist think bout it
2006-12-13 15:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by thebeautifultakiesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attracting men who are not right for you. Your maturity is light years ahead of theirs! Join a singles group, enjoy time with your girlfriends. When you least expect it, opportunity will knock on your door. Don't try so hard. Let life happen...
2006-12-13 15:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join some groups or classes where you get to see a person repeatedly and have shared interests. Get to know them before you plan a date.
2006-12-13 15:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry....they aren't the right person for you.....In life their is always a person waiting for you at the end of the tunnel....It's probably not the right moment to meet your "one and only."
Remember to be yourself.....cause there must be a guy who's looking for a women like you.
2006-12-13 15:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem is you haven't met me yet. I'm not into playing games like that. If I make a date, I go on it. E-mail me through here and let's chat. I'm a respectful 43yr old SWM.
2006-12-13 15:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're probably just looking to get laid and calculate that you are not going to "put out," without them having to put forth a little more effort than they care to put forth. I wouldn't worry about it. If they don't even have the decency to call to cancel, their just low-class horndogs---whorechasers.lol
2006-12-13 15:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like maybe ur just trying to hook up with the wrong men maybe. sweetie don't worry I'm sure that there's someone out there 4 u. just keep ur head up and be proud of who u are. its a good thing that ur such an upstanding person.
2006-12-13 15:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try online dating. I think that match.com offers a free trial. Maybe you're just not meeting the right men.
2006-12-13 15:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋