Okay I am not very old an I have only dated one guy.I have never been kissed but I am only 13 so it doesnt bother me.I liked this guy but he didnt like me because he said that he has never dated a girl who hadnt been kissed or who was a virgin.He also was not very good lookin but said that i wasnt pretty enough 2 date him. I dont understand.Because theres this other guy who sorta likes that i have never been kissed.I am really confused.Please help an NO trashy answers
2006-12-13 15:21:22 · 20 answers · asked by Oh so Confused? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I am 13 an that most guys my age are jerks but I am mature for my age though you would understand wat i mean if u knew me.I wanna stay a virgin until i get married.Which 2 me is a great idea! O an I am NOT datin the guy we just were talkin...
2006-12-13 15:36:45 · update #1
First, why are you dating or allowed to date at 13? And how old is this guy who's never dated virgins? You need to slow it down little lady- 13 is 7th grade, as in a year out of grammer school... You shouldn't think about dating until your old enough to drive. P.S. Any guy that would say your not pretty enough to date is an asshole.
2006-12-13 15:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Little boys - that's what they are called when they are 13 - are really insecure. Why would you care what some teenaged little doofus whose tiny pee-pee still fits in his 6th grade Under-Roos thinks about your looks?
Boys your age like to put others down to make themselves feel better. Of course he thinks you are ugly - god knows he's the expert on being ugly - he sees his mug every day in the mirror. Just stay active, keep yourself clean, practice good hygiene when your period rolls around, experiment with makeup, and I have a feeling plenty of guys are going to think you are cute. One, you have a good attitude and that makes all the difference.
Second, he is lying about the "I only date experienced women" thing. What does he think he is - 40? That means, you realize, he has *zero* experience. If a naked girl walked up to him he'd have no clue what to do with her. He'd go play video games.
So don't rush to lose your virginity or "get experienced" just to make some idiot guy happy. The more experienced you get, the more other guys will let everyone know how easy you are, and then you're the class ho. Don't let his stupid logic bother you.
And if a guy likes you, he won't care if you've never been kissed - he will feel honored if he is the first. This whole notion that you have to be some wh*re house trained professional by age 14 is ridiculous. Take your time. We have enough 15 year old girls with babies as it is. Go slow and enjoy growing up. The kissing stuff comes fast enough.
2006-12-13 15:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some gusy are just jerks, liek that first guy, from what you said you can tell he just wants your virginity and thinks way too much of himself. Okay heres the thing, guys who only want to make out all the time and just have sex arnt the rite gusy for you. Your 13 you have a whole life ahead of ya, and you deserve someone who actaully cares for you, and makes you happy. Someone whos there when you need him, not liek annoying, but you know there for you, and someone that you can be on the fone with for like 3hrs and still have sumthin to talk about. someone who treats you rite, just cuz one guysa jerk doesnt label the rest of us, you never know the rite guy could be ther all along but you neva noticed him. Kissed yet or not, as long as you gusy are true to each other, doesnt matter.
2006-12-13 15:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being 13 and not being kissed is truly ok and being a virgin is a great thing savor it until u find someone u truly love as for the guy who said ur not pretty enough and he has never dated a girl who is a virgin 10 to 1 says he's a liar just relax and wait u'll meet someone soon enough
2006-12-13 15:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some boy is not going to date you because you have never been kissed or because you are a virgin, then he's not worth it honey. You deserve someone who will respect you and love you for who you are. Although at this point it shouldn't really be of concern, you are still young...so don't worry about boys...they'll be there when your ready to have a boyfriend. Just focus on school, and having fun, for now.
Good luck,
Cheers!
2006-12-13 15:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um i would wait till highschool to deal with that stuff trust me im in 10th grade and now that i look back middle school relationships were all jokes, but if u want me to answer i would say: if i guy says ur not good enough or ur not "experienced enough" tell him to f*ck off and find some one nice.( the nicest and most caring guys r the ones like u not a lot of past dates and a virgin)
2006-12-13 15:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by iowadude92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really care what this loser thinks? This guy has his own twisted opinions and does not represent the entire guy population! Just because he does not like you does not mean another guy won't either! So cheer up!!! Everyone has their own tastes and opinions on everything so do not worry about what this 1 guy said or thinks about you!
Plus, take it slow with guys...you have plenty of time to date!
2006-12-13 15:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, listen to me....if ever a man tells you that you aren't pretty enough, or good enough or any crap like that, stay away from him. Any person that says that to you is not worth one second of your time. Stay away from idiots like that, they will only bring you down. And about not understanding guys, don't worry, none of us understand them, but that doesn't mean we are going to let them treat us like crap either! The guy that likes that you haven't been kissed probably is more of an upstanding kid. Maybe he likes that you aren't 'loose' like some other girls your age and he might think that you have standards. (I think that too) Good luck to you~
2006-12-13 15:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by s w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 07:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was 17 (almost 18) before I got my first boyfriend and first kiss...don't rush things and wait for a guy that really likes you, it's worth the wait!!
2006-12-13 15:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Blah:Blah:Blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋