What should i do when my girlfriend is pmsing and we are fighting, i really dont want to fight, but i dont know how to deal with her, plz answer, and thx for giving your time to answer
2006-12-13 15:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that depends on what she is laying on you when she's pms-ing...You are not her whipping boy just because she has pms.
You don't say how old you are, but I get the feeling you're both young. When she gets like that, if you can't deal with it, take a walk, or go home, or tell her you'll talk to her tomorrow. Maybe she'll get the hint that she is pushing you to your limits and make some adjustments.
2006-12-13 15:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have opened a can of worms. You are better off staying away for a couple of days. She will get irate about anything. And it's probably not even your fault. I tell my fiance to stay away when its that time but he usually knows its here already. I yell at him for things he does everyday that dont normally bother me. Good luck and just agree with her (lol), stay at least arms reach from her and understand it is a hormonal change that she has no control over....(run now while you can, lol)
2006-12-13 23:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Chicago Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend your a soldier man in a hostile territory..just keep your head down..find stuff to do and try to keep her in chocolate and kisses for a few days..if it's really really bad she could take meds. but that would be a tricky one to bring up too...best to do it while she isn't PMSing..you should also talk to her about how she makes you feel..in a non blaming way while she isn't too..she may not even realize what a B** she is being..seriously...and GOOD LUCK
2006-12-13 23:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by lucky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in the back of your mind she is PMSing and very emotional. And keep some chocolate in the freezer with tissues on the table!
2006-12-13 23:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by bridgetrocks86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just remember that its a girl thing and is going to happen every month, try to just ignore her and let it not get to you. She cant help it, no girl can. So just be there and try to deal with it. Good luck
2006-12-13 23:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its time you two fight and you always give way to her and she doesn't know your intention, both won't go far.
this girl might not be good for your life partner.
2006-12-13 23:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man pms...worse case....well i know my boyfriend just listens when i freak out about nothing. maybe thats all she needs. dont argue back cuz most likely you cant make her happy no matter what you do lol. and she'll just keep on getting angrier...haha....so just all u gotta do is deal with and shhh lol
2006-12-13 23:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tinkerbellloverzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are going to give her quiet time & that you will so something else like run errands or a hobby or something.
2006-12-13 23:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL NOW ARNT WE JUST POLITE GEEZE NE WAY JUST COPE IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER JUST STICK WITH HER BC I KNOW HOW IT WOULD FEEL BC I HAVE BEEN DUMPED FOR THAT
2006-12-13 23:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Arial Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad but true.......just nod your head and say "OK" and tell her that SHE is "right"....seriously
2006-12-13 23:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by roseupmylife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋