my gf's hair??

Question

i really, really enjoy playing with hair, and massaging a girl's head; but my gf's hair isn't...well...sexy. she is absolutely beautiful in every way, but her hair has been described as "baby fine but lots of it". she's not dirty, she just doesn't have healthy hair i guess. i can't run my fingers thru it w/o getting tangled, and it's difficult to keep clean. i feel like the only thing missing w/ us is me being able to run my fingers thru her hair. are there any products that can help this...or am i too picky?? or, any ladies w/ lucious hair out there like scalp massages and their hair played w/?

Answer 1

Some people just are different. My daughters hair is like this. She insists on wearing it long. I perfer it short because of the fly away nature and tangling and ya its just not pretty. Problem with fine hair is to much product overwhelms it. No one is perfect we all have things that need overlooked... the question is... is she wonderfull enough for you to get over her unfortunate genes?
and essentialy its her hair. if you think she doesnt know how to manage it then offer a spectalor salon package so she can learn. If she otherwise is knowledgeble about such things then be quiet some things are better left unsaid.

Answer 2

I know how she must feel! I have really thick hair that is getting long (5" past the shoulder) and I hated how my hair was constantly feeling matted down. After consulting my beautician, she suggested that when your hair is first wet, use a little bit of serum (I use Chi serum) and rub it into your hair. Blow dry until about half done and then put a little more serum in. Make sure and blow dry until all moisture is out and then use a flat iron to make the hair straight and smooth. After that, use a little more serum (each amount used should be about pea sized) and this should keep your hair shiny looking, while maintaining a healthy outward appearance. Run your fingers through it all you want. I do and so does my husband!

Answer 3

Unfortunately thats how fine hair is, its tangles very easily. You didn't say whether she had straight or curly hair, but I would suggest a good deep conditioner to keep it soft and brushing it at least once daily.

I love when a man plays with my hair! It feels so relaxing.

Answer 4

I love it when my boyfriend plays with hair, and so does he! A clarifying shampoo should help, and only condition the ends. Conditioner on your scalp will make it oily.

Answer 5

I love scalp massages. For Xmas go to the salon, tell the people this prob and buy your g/f some really nice shampoo and conditioner. Then tell her it is to pamper herself. She will love it and use it and then hopefully you will be happy with the results.

Answer 6

she need to have a good head massage on her scalp:

Head Massage For Fast Hair Growth
http://hair-care-info.blogspot.com/2006/09/head-massage-for-fast-hair-growth.html

Answer 7

Buy a bottle of Paul Mitchell's Leave in Hair conditioning. Have her put it in her hair each time after she combs her hair.

Answer 8

wellfirst i love getting mah hair played with. but there is a new line of shampoo and conditioner by herbal essence and its for any type of hair. and it makes it soft and not ugly..(not being mean)

Answer 9

this is a little funny um...... maybe it would help if your gf combed our brushed her hair almost everyday or maybe a perm or straight comb would help it get straight..try combing it softly with a little oil to help the hair not break off as much

Answer 10

tell her to try a shampoo for kids they seem to work good on fine hair and maybe a two in one