i have a boyfriend, and my friend always talks to him. it REALLY seems like she flirts with him. yesterday i confronted her and told her how i felt, and then she just *****-slapped me and then told everyone that i tried to make a move on her. now everyone gives me dirty looks and no one believes me when i try to tell them what happened. my boyfriend doesnt even know what to think and i think he is starting to have feelings for my ex-best friend!! what should i do?!?!?!?!?!! PLEASE help1!
2006-12-13 15:12:23 · 9 answers · asked by catherine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to bad it's not true that you tried to make a move on her that would have been hot
2006-12-13 15:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg honey. youve been through a lot...calm down and we'll fix this!
well first off, this girl is no longer your friend and i doubt she was a very nice friend if she was FLIRTING with your boyfriend! how rude in the first place, but to talk trash and hit you and say you tried to make a move on her...this is just too much!!!
how to handle this:
1. you need to talk to your boyfriend. or pontential ex-boyfriend cause seriously, your better than that piece of trash. if he flirted back to ur friend and now thinks your a lesbian or something, he doesn't know you at all and is a real jerk! i suggest you either work things out with him, as in talk to him (please yell at him...he deserves it a bit) or dump him because he defnietly should have seen this coming...he's literally an idiot.
2. you need to talk to your ex friend. to avoid confrontation, i suggest you write her a note or IM her...BUT if you are aware that talk is hopeless and that you cant deal with her stupidity and lies anymore, avoid her. i know its hard, trust me i know, but never talk to her...she's being a freak about everything, so you can try to have a "cone of silence" going on until she breaks...
3. as for ppl being mean about it, i'm so sorry this happened to you. theres not much you can do about other people except stick it out...tell them to shove off or agree with them in a totally sarcastic way when they say something...always works!!!
o jeeze honey. people are so cruel. hang on and hope i helped...
2006-12-13 23:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! thats horrid. i have one tidbit tho, "If you and your friend get into a huge fight that eventually ends your relationship, you were never friends to begin with." so don't feel bad or betrayed or anything, coz she was probably just a freeloading biotch! she was just along with you while it suited her.
i cannot believe that somebody would do that, but hey, its just never happened to me. i suggest you walk around with your head up high, and dont look anybody in the face. just walk past them and they'll eventually give up on the dirty looks because it wont get a rise from you anymore.
and same goes for your boyfriend. if he starts to get feelings for this girl that never really was your friend, you shouldnt have called him your man, EVER! coz it means that he values the characteristics of a person that just fronted the whole time.
you may have a hard time just forgetting about it, but i guarantee that you are better off without them, honey. be strong, and good luck!
~ally
2006-12-13 23:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by need 2 get a grip 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh thats a tough one...oh dear.....it seems to me that she likes him and shed do anything to get him. she obviously isnt your best friend if she slaps you across the face and makes up a rumour like that. its horrible. high school is getting so bad these days. tell your boyfriend its not true. if you were a lesbian then why would you be with him and kiss him and hold his hand? homosexuals cant stand kissing the opposite sex. i know it's hard i've been through rumours too. but just keep strong sweetie......be confident and dont let people get to you. dont even say nething to her....cuz she'll think she won and it'll be over and done with. good luck
2006-12-13 23:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tinkerbellloverzz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend look up friend int the dictionary friends don't spread rumors and also dont gossip about one another.... no need to redeem your self show your strength and confidence by not letting it phase you... Okay i think you have your answer she wanted your man and she's trying to take him ..... honestly if he's worth it he wouldn't entertain her if he does .... not your loss . trash is keep out of our lives for a reason...
2006-12-13 23:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry catherine!!!!!!! um..... there really is nothing you can do about rumors. people believe what they want to believe, whether you want them to or not. and, if you think that your boyfriend has "feelings" for your ex-best friend, dump him unless you absolutely love him, cause it will lead to nothing but trouble! hey, send me a message sometime! my name is katherine as well! LOL! im 14. bye!
2006-12-13 23:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by katiecakes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's mean u should talk to your bf and keep your"ex-friend" out of ur life ...she is not ur friend!!!
2006-12-13 23:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let both them asses go u know wat u stand for and that biatch sure aint a friend find new friends and choose ur bf more wisely dont even take them on. hang in there n b sttrong i am sorry bout wat happened
2006-12-13 23:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by thebeautifultakiesha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it princess...the world does not revolve around you....
2006-12-13 23:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by TONe 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋