my ex(we're still good friends) is coming home on leave from the army for christmas on saturday. i'm not sure if we should see one another when he's back or not. I still have more than friend feelings for him. Should i just wait for him to contact me and for him to tell me that he's back?
2006-12-13 14:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he tells you that he wants to see you, go see him. But if he doesn't say anything or make the initial contact, then don't. If he wants to see you, he will make a move. If he does make any move, you know what that means.
2006-12-13 14:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both single go for it. You might learn something about the relationship. It's very hard to enlisted men to to have a stable relationship if the other person is not emotionally available, This may be a good time to solidify your feelings. Let him know how you feel.
2006-12-13 22:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, there's nothing wrong with talikng to your ex,unless he was a bad ex. In your situation he sounds like you loved him very much, so he must have been a good guy. He'll appreciate that you still thinks about him,so give him a call.
2006-12-13 22:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call first and tell him you wish to see him. Honesty is the best thing. Tell him what you feel and if he says no you haven't really lost anything. Then you can finally move on. I hope this helps, i'm big on honesty.
2006-12-13 22:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's already mentioned to you that he'll be back for a little while, then why not just give him a call on the phone to say hey. that way it'll leave it open on whether or not you meet up in person.
2006-12-13 22:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it.
even if you have feelings for him, he doesn't know.
and friends are allowed to see eachother after they haven't for so long.
2006-12-13 22:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by sarah d !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt, how will that benifit you?
2006-12-13 22:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Michi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋