alrighty. so I have this boyfriend who I really don't want to be with anymore, but he's kind of sensitive like reaaallly sensitive he cry's over everything. I don't want to be a b itch and hurt him, so how do I go about this without hurting him?
2006-12-13 14:26:46 · 23 answers · asked by hottie555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him the "its me, not you" speech. That works.
2006-12-13 14:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he should be tough enough to deal with the problems of life, and if he can't you should toughen him up for his own good. Fake an emotional breakdown, and cry for hours, shed as many tears as you can, and ask your bf for emotional support, and talk about every sorrow you ever had, he'll get tired of you crying so much he'll stop crying.
2006-12-13 14:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to make him break up with u..like ignore his calls and all that kind of stuff its the most fail safe way to do it without hurting his feelings as badly..well its not reallty the nicest way but if u really want to break up with him just be honest about how u feel and either he will understand or he wont
2006-12-13 14:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by bdbdub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly start to back away from him until he starts getting a vague message that you don't want to be with him anymore. Once you are sure he knows that, then dump him. There are going to be tears involved, but it's better for him if it doesn't come as a shock.
2006-12-13 14:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by never you mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that sensitive nothing you say is going to ease the hurt for him be honest and direct about it.
2006-12-13 14:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way he's gonna cry when you do it so just get it over with. Those old cliche's always work; It's me not you, I just want to be friends, Now isn't a good time, ect. Good luck.
2006-12-13 14:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just directly tell him. it is impossible not to hurt such a sensitive dude. don't try to fool him by having another one while you are with him. Just tell him that he deserves someone better than you who would understand him and share his interests, dreams and visions.
2006-12-13 14:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sucks to have to break up with somebody. I think it was harder to do that then to have my own heart broken. You just have to DO it. Just tell him that you don't have feelings anymore like you used to, and you want to move on. Like ripping off a band-aid.
2006-12-13 14:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him down gently. Just be honest with him and tell him you want to break up. I know he'll be hurt, but he will get over it.
2006-12-13 14:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just let him down gently it's better if you tell him straigh up but dont be mean I mean he wouldnt want it to be like you had told one of your friends who told him that's just mean and heartless just tell him that you're not really feeling the connection and you think that it's best you go your seperate ways and you would hope that you can still be friends
2006-12-13 14:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just esplain to him why you want to break up with him, and say you just want to be friends, help him get through it without him thinking you want him again, and don't help him get through it so much he gets to attched. Say it to him as if it were a close frien, you wouldnt want to hurt a close friend you care about.
2006-12-13 14:29:52 · answer #11 · answered by the13yrdchicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋