What do u say to a girl that u like?, (do u ask if u want to go out sometime or just express your feelings).?

Question

What do u say to a girl that u like?, (do u ask if u want to go out sometime or just express your feelings).

Answer 1

dont express your feelings yet, the first thing you would want to do is ask her out on a date, ask her what her plans are for the weekend and tell her that you would love it if she could possibly find time to come out with you and have dinner and a movie. After the first date than you can express a bit of your feeling such as you think shes so pretty and you love her personality, dont over do it though it might scare her off if you do it all at once.

Answer 2

When you are interested in being more than just friends with a woman, and you want to avoid being thought of like a brother, put your most romantic foot forward. Stop wishing and wondering about how it will all turn out, and let her know what kind of relationship you are interested in.

Instructions
•STEP 1: Get inspired. Look back on the times when you really enjoyed being around her, discovered that you might have a lot in common, or realized that you had tremendous respect for her.
•STEP 2: Put yourself in her shoes. Based on what you know about her, imagine what language or situations might make her uncomfortable, and avoid them. If you are unsure, err on the side of caution. Avoid overemphasizing the appeal of her physical appearance.
•STEP 3: Choose an appropriate venue for your disclosure, so that you can avoid embarrassment and awkwardness as much as possible. Telling her on a sailboat, miles away from shore, or announcing it from the audience of a talk show might not work out well for either of you.
•STEP 4: Make yourself clear. You do not have to be cryptic to be tactful. Rather than wrapping your feelings of romance in a riddle, clearly convey your attraction. "You might already know that I like you, but I want you to know that I am interested in you romantically."
•STEP 5: Keep the door open for a response, without putting pressure on her. Let her know that you want to remain friendly, even if you do not develop a closer relationship.
•STEP 6: Resist requesting an immediate response. It is pretty off-putting if you say, "Well, what do you think of me? I mean, I could be wrong, but I am pretty sure that I was getting a vibe from you. Am I right or am I right?"
•STEP 7: Give your declaration some time to sink in. It may take a few days or even weeks. Once you start counting the months go by, you can safely bet she is not interested.
•STEP 8: Let it go and move on if the feelings are not mutual or if she doesn't mention it again.
•STEP 9: Celebrate with her if she believes that you two just might become an item.
•STEP 10: Learn from your experience, whatever the outcome. What would you do differently next time? Are you often interested in women who don't feel the same way about you? Are you open to approaching different women than you have ever considered for a relationship before?

Tips & Warnings
•Prepare for a positive experience, even if she doesn't share your feelings, or if she isn't sure how she feels. Putting yourself out there is great practice and may even encourage whoever likes you romantically to step forward.
•Being persistent and self-confident is one thing; being aggressive and aggravating is something else entirely. Realize that you are taking a risk that may really pay off, but it could also set you back temporarily if you are not quite her type.
•Keep it all in perspective. There is nothing romantic about pining over someone who is just not interested. Take a break and try again with someone else who would be a better match.
•A prolonged pursuit, no matter how sweet your intentions, can get pretty creepy. Think about those guys in bad, made-for-TV movies. You know the type. She should never have to tell you to leave her alone. If it reaches this point, then there are actual laws to protect her from you.

Answer 3

Be cool. Yes ask her if she wants to go out very casually. Don't make a big deal out of it just keep is casual, if she is a stranger. maybe ask her to go bowling or for a slice of pizza, or go cart racing, Having no idea how old you are it's kind of hard to answer. If you express your feelings right away without her really knowing you; you might come across as desperate. If you know her fairly well than express your feelings.

Answer 4

If you like a girl the best thing to do is try to see her more often. So ask her out, or get involved in something together. That way you can get to know her even better. Once you know her, then you can decide if its appropriate for you to express your feelings for her, or maybe by that time she'll already know how you feel.

Answer 5

Ask her out first. Get to know her a little more, and give her a chance to get to know you as well. When the right time has come, express your feelings.

Answer 6

I can see your probably abput the same age as me. Ive looked at SOME of the topics of your otehr questions and i know your having a lot of girl trouble.

well hey im a girl and i seem about your age and my age group ( ill be 13 on Friday) doesn't really 'date , date', if you know what i mean.
Just become friends with all the girls. You will really then see which one is for you. Become GOOD friends with them!
Treat them like your 'buddies!!' Be friends.
I'm working very hard this year on making a lot of friends, boys,girls and diverse friends. just be friendly. You'll really get to know the girl more , and then she just wont be a the little cutie you have your eye on! You'll know her, like a good friend, you'll be able to confert her on her bad days and...idk...

and if you want her to go somewhere with you. invite a whole group of your close friends and ask her to come too but tell ehr she can bring a friend....she HAS to bring a friend, otherwise it would be very awkward to her.

who ever she is... lol
i hope you found this helpful instead of just total girl-blab.
E-mail me please!! I want to talk to you a little more....i want to hear a little more about your dilemma ^_^

Answer 7

Try being settle about it. Ask her if what movie she would like to see, if you think that you would like that one, say " Me too, would you like to go this weekend, on me" then on the way there read her body, if you get a good vibe let her know, if not then maybe friends are the right thing for you guys. DON'T BE PUSHY! that's one thing girls hate, she will think you are a stalker or something...
hope it goes good!

Answer 8

Ask her to meet you at the coffee shop or bar and go from there. Do not express your feelings right away.

Answer 9

Just ask her out to hangout like go to the movies.NEVER mention your house.Go some place outside you know?For a walk.If the weathers harsh go to a movie or an arcade.Actually scratch the movie go any place where you can hold a conversation.

Answer 10

It's best to ask them out first. If they say yes, then when you are out with them you can tell a little about how you feel. On the other hand, if they say no, all dignity is not lost.