see i like a guy but im alreadly dating someome and my bestfriend likes him too. but i dont know if he likes me, idont want 2 ask him out if he doesnt like me or if he has girlfriend. and i think alot of other guys like me to. i do flirt/ talk with alot of guys.im good at talking but i sometimes get butterflies when i see or talk to him. what should i do?
2006-12-13 14:24:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are already dating someone what are you doing looking for another boyfriend???? You need to decide first if you want to be with the guy you are dating or not. If not tell him it is over,THEN and ONLY then go looking at another relationship. Otherwise YOU ARE NOTHING MORE THAN A S@L*U^T!!!!(IGNORE THE @,*,^)
2006-12-13 14:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by david b 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me, Jennifer, like you dont know what you want. Until you know that, noone can answer your question -- especially yourself. If you like to flirt, then be mindful. Sometimes your flirting can hurt people. It also has to do with your age -- are you old enough to want something serious and meaningful? If so, then you do know what to do; carefully weigh your decisions and be honest with all those involved. Yes, it means taking a risk. I mean if you were honest with your boyfriend then you would be saying "well, I want you around just in case the guy that I really want to go out with doesnt like me?" Right? Is that mature?
If you are just playing, then you are still a child, so have fun, but be prepared to get hurt while you learn.
2006-12-13 22:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Clear thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the one you are currently dating doesn't have any expectations that your are in an exclusive relationship, I can see no reason why you can't date whoever you want, have fun, or whatever.
So ask this other guy out if that's what you want.
What's the big deal?
Enjoy!
2006-12-13 22:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first step; be friends with him & get to know him. if you are only attracted to him physically, you might end up not liking his personality.
this has happend to me many times!
so try to get the 411 on him =]
this way, you can also find out if he has a girlfriend or not!
good luckkk.
<3
2006-12-13 22:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat on the guy you are dating.. and first look for a way to get of the relationship you are in.. then ask him out..
2006-12-13 22:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Promise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur dating some one be honest and stay committed to him.and secondly if ur friend like him then u should reconsider datind him. its ok to be interested in some one else, but wait until ur single to pursue that person. and if its meant to be it will be,,,,,, trust God, he workes miracles. good luck
2006-12-13 22:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by sweetbahama mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open the top two or three buttons on your blouse and ask him out
2006-12-13 22:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
break up with him and quit being trampy
2006-12-13 22:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, you should ask him out.
2006-12-13 22:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by the13yrdchicka 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋