to love experts: i really need advice on this one..?

Question

Should i let her go?

ive been moving on, then she approached me after a while..we never had a relationship. we had that attraction but we realized we dont connect, but i wrote her how awkward it is being friends for me...
i know she wanted to be friends ( i do too), but when we talked, we still couldnt even hold a long productive conversation. its frustrating wanting to know this person, but you just dont connect.

next semester, i relaized our sched wont make us see each other at all....is that a good thing? what do you think of the situation? should i even keep trying to see her to be friends at least, or better off to let it all go? pls also share things i can do to not expect anymore from her when we meet....( i still have some feelings for her i guess, and tho id be happy for her to connect with someone, id be honest: that's gonna hurt)

Answer 1

let it go cleanse your self get her off your mind .And next time you talk to her say like tell her a story of how you had a good time without her . show her you moved on maybe she will to. if you need anymore help you im me

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong if you try to make friends with her. The only thing that you need to work on is your expectation from her. Since you don't connect, don't expect anything at all. And you better move on and meet other people.

It does happen when there is just only physical attraction and nothing else. I am very sure you have certain physical criteria about your ideal partner. Both of you just fall into your standards, however, that is just about it.

Don't stress out yourself.

It's a vast world.

Answer 3

well in this situattion . you knew her from the beginning and knew what wach other want and don't. My advice you should take thing slowly and wisely. You still had feeling for her and not wanting her to be with other guys.
You should continue with the relationship, this is only the test of your endurance towards the relationship. Love is all about communicating, feelings, forgiveness, endurance and forgiveness.
Lastly don't give up keep the love burning and keep communcation flowing. Good luck my friend.

Answer 4

well honey sounds like it was over before it began .. to be honest..i think the both of u went into this deal between u all tryint o be more thatn firneds.. so that brought the tenison and issues up.. if u had tried to be friends 1st maybe it would have worked better ..
but i would just move on and maybe have her as a casual frined chit chat wqith and so on .. not like everyay thing.. cuz you both are just killin time and hurtin each ohter by making it somethign that its not !