how do you get pregnant to trap a guy ?

Question

i reaaly like this guy nd i wantto be with him for a long time. as well as i want a baby , i have been wanting a baby since college has started . so how can i trap him ?

now that i have gotten enough responses , i will reveal tht i'm doing a case study on teen pregnancies and sexual activity. from what i have seen , i'm very proud to see that society still does have a sense of good morals . i'm actually a NIU student who is majoring in women studies / health and family nutrition , i am curently working on a thesis and this was one of my sources . so thanks to all that replied.

Answer 1

Good grief woman! If he doesn't want you, you cannot trap him. And then you'd be a single mother too. Almost no guys want to date women with children already. So don't do it! Good night!

Answer 2

Um I think you really need to take a step back here and think about what you are saying. Why would you ever want to "trap" a guy. Having a baby is a big responsibility, will you be able to support the child, or what would you do to finish college. Anyway you look at what you asked, its probably the worst thing that you could do to stay with a guy for a long time. Thinking like that will most definetly cause problems down the road 5, 10 years from now... Not trying to be mean, but its something that I think most people would not advise doing.

Answer 3

YOU DON'T!!!!!! How could you even think of using an innocent child for something so deceitful. Do you really think that will make a guy stay? Do you know how many single Moms are out there??

I had a married friend who was ready for a baby and her husband wasn't. She "accidentally" forgot to take her birth control pills, got pregnant and then found her husband cheating on her with a stripper when she was nine months pregnant. They are now very bitterly divorced and he still doesn't want children and the kids are the ones suffering wondering why Daddy doesn't want to be with them.

Answer 4

You have a very selfish intention. Why not build the relationship first before going into some serious matters. Tricking the guy would do you no good but will only bring frustration and heartache. People will hate you when they find out the truth.

I think you need to calm down, show him you love him, express it by both actions and words but don't be to overdriven. Guys hate it when they find out that the girl in dead-i-love with them, sometimes you eed to play hard to get.

You need to think the consequences of your action over, once you done you can no longer take it back.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Are you serious love? You need your head testing. Your bringing a child in the world for gods sake, not some sort of item!!!! Grow up girl and think of the seriousness of looking after a child. Anyway, a relationship based on just having kids never works. Think carefully about what your doing....

Answer 6

WTF

its exactly people like you that destroys the worldwide perception of single pregnancies now days, I'm a south African national living in Scotland and my fiance is a Scottish girl, we have to deal with people saying that she traped me because in south African and a "sexy foreigner" and I'm just trying to get "my green card". does no one realise the severity of bringing a child into this world for such F##KED up reasons????
just remember that once you do it, there is no turning back, if you have the child and the father disappears, you have to live with it and frankly the fact that you are even considering that as an option also shows you are not ready for children

Answer 7

u never want to trap a guy just to keep him with u, as the conception of a child will not make him want to stay with you, infact he may abandon u, and leave u with the little bundle of joy. wait to have children till both are in agreement, just because u have his baby, doesn't guarantee u a good life with him. better wait than be sorry, bringing a life into the world should be because u and him both want the child, nothing worse than a child to grow up fatherless. wait till you are married, and someone has really committed to u, can never build a lasting relationship on deception.

Answer 8

If you "really like this guy" why would you wanna TRAP him so he cant leave!!
My gosh girl have some respect for yourself!! Think there are two of you in it you might want a child he may not be ready its something you BOTH need to DECIDE TOGETHER! Really thats an awful thing to do!! why not wait until you AND HE are ready it'll be better for you both you dont want him to wind up HATING YOU if you really like him!!
Think twice before doing anything too crazy huni

Answer 9

anyone can get pregnant but face the reality your only trapping yourself at anypoint and time he can walk away from you and your left with a mouth to feed and a broken heart..... Have a baby.....College studying harder a baby in the backgrounds hungry.... Finals you dont have no one to watch your baby so you fail.... When we do things in a manipulating manner it never works out they way we plan... look at the teen pregnancy rate and the single parent rate..... Dont trap yourself respect yourself and let your child have a future based on love and a mutual decison not trickery.....

Answer 10

NEVER get pregnant to trap a man! The last thing you need is a child to take your focus away from your classes. Focus on your classes and complete college - then get a great job and begin your career. After you are financially stable - find the 'right' man, get married and then begin your family.