This girl i really like has just made me really angry, she told me to F*ck off......i dont even know the reason, i was just tryiing to make her happy, i was cheering her up....she said i was being loud to her.....???we used to go out heaps, to movies, lunches dinners, all her idea not mine, i use to go along, i really liked her, never knew why i never asked her out to these things....anyhow,...one week she was really silent to me, like she would only talk cause she had to kind of thing, and she would laugh as much....we work together....it just got worst from there, and it seems to be getting worst each day for me....she seems to be laughin alot with her mates, just acts wierd towards me, and im pretty much the same....i just dont understand why she has gone so angry towards me?.......maybe i done something i dont know.she always used to like to touch me, and play with all my stuff....i use to annoy her heaps,and always use to conformt her...whats the story ppl????im a bit confused..
2006-12-13 14:18:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will girls stop talking to you if they really like you?....cause thats whats happened now....shes really nice on the phone, but doesnt laugh to me as much...like she used to at the start....maybe she thinks she hasnt done anything wrong.
2006-12-13 14:19:42 · update #1
this has been ongoing for 3-4weeks, shes been acting really wierd....i dont understand....why the sudden change, i wish she would just tell me.,....im just ignoring her right now like nothing else....will she come to her senses that shes hurting me?
2006-12-13 14:23:47 · update #2
i know i shouldnt have to, but im thinking of telling her to meet up for a coffee, and explain to her that i dont want her as a friend with the way shes acting right now....im really thinking of cutting it off altogether...funny i thought wed always be friends
2006-12-13 14:30:06 · update #3
seems to me that something is really bothering her and she is showing it with her actions and not by being upfront about it with you. Write her a email or letter telling her how much she means to you and that you always thought of her that way, tell her that your feeling like she is pushing you away and you dont understand why. You would love to know if there is somthing bothering her about you so than yous can patch things up and maybe start all over and go out on a date, but if she is not interested and doesnt like you in that way and dont even want to be friends than just let you know so you will back off.
2006-12-13 14:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious she found someone else she likes better@!!!.
I was in the same position couple of years ago... You have to ignore her@!! and dont let her hurt you. Just act like youdon't give a ****.. and be nice to everyone else but her@! Good Luck.. and don't worry there is someone out there for you already... you just have to open your eyes...
2006-12-13 14:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's begging for attention and you are giving her the attention she is craving from a guy. she obviously likes you. she's playing hard to get. the more attention you give her, the more she will act up. she needs to grow up a little bit. a real woman would never treat a man that way.
2006-12-13 14:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her whats wrong. If she really likes you (or maybe loves you) she will tell you what's wrong and what can be done to fix it. Maybe it's her. But if it is you, you can always fix it with a pinch of magic,her support, and both your strengths combined.
2006-12-13 14:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Leighton H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1. give her her space and see what see does.
or 2. Just ask her! Say we used to be kinda close.. is something wrong? or even better.. ASK HER OUT ON AN OFFICIAL DATE.
2006-12-13 14:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is experiencing some problems she don't want to discuss with you. Just continue to be her friend a while and see if she will change and if not then one must moveon.
2006-12-13 14:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How plainer do you want her to put it.You will only make it worse for yourself if you keep on drooling after her.From now on pretend that she does not exist.If you come across her dont be rude,but get on with your life.
2006-12-13 14:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure she has been waitin for you to ask her out and sence you have not she got kinda mad so go up to her and ask her whats wrong then after she lets out her feelings and is not mad at her tell her you are there for her and she can tell you any thing so just let her explain then ask her out
2006-12-13 14:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Arial Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that she is cooling off to you, but she wants to know she can be appreciated even when she doesn't feel in the mood for your affection. You have spent too much time together and you are 'acourtin' too slow!
2006-12-13 14:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you need a week away from the pain she obviously can't see she's giving, that should give her a while to calm down, then ask why she was so upset that week ago.
2006-12-13 14:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋