That irks me though...but he wants me on that day..if not he feels dejected or may be I miss him in future...what do you guys recon??Help me plz
2006-12-13 14:12:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you made a date in advance and looks like you may be on your period when the date occurs then just tell him. Keep the date, but change the activities so that there's not a lot of running around and you have opportunities to change pads/tampons to stay fresh. Most guys are understanding enough to work around the girl's period and are willing to change things up a bit.
If you don't feel comfortable going out at all on your period than call him (at LEAST 24 hours before the date) and tell him you started your period and don't feel comfortable going out that night but want to do something in a couple of days after your period is done. If you call less than 24 hours it'll sound too much like your using your period as an excuse to break the date.
If the guy is emotionally mature and/or has had a relationship with a girl lasting longer than a month he'll understand and won't feel rejected, just make sure you make a new date with him ASAP after your period so he knows you're not jerking him around.
If you don't think he's mature enough to handle it (you sound a bit young) then use a white lie and I mean WHITE LIE, something pretty close to the truth. Tell him your grounded for something minor (talking back, skipping chores, caught cursing, hit your sibling, or something else you got busted for by your folks) and that you can't go out that night. Make a new date ASAP for after your period, but tell him that's when you "won't be grounded anymore" and you can go out then. He may not be mature enough to deal with your period, but he will understand being grounded is out of your control.
2006-12-13 14:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rukh 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me ask this...is it a very serious relationship? Do you love him? Do you think he loves you? Are you committed to this relationship? Then you need to tell him what you are and are not comfortable with (do you wanna?); and he needs to learn that when you dont or cant, that's its not a rejection of him -- coz it's about more than just the sex, you know. If it isnt, then what does it matter? Communicate -- honestly. I very much hope that he'll be flattered that you are so open and trusting with him!
2006-12-13 22:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Clear thinker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at it this way sweets. This is a way justice become poetic.
Go on ur date, w/ a sly grin. When he want to sample the goods, why, give him free reighn! It's like reaching into a bag of what you beleive is candy, and pulling back some 4 day old squid sushi.
2006-12-13 22:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Are you asking about going on a date on your period? If you are then of course you should still live your life. You are still human. If he wants you tell him you can't 'cause you are having your womanly time. If he can't handle it don't date him anymore.
2006-12-13 22:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say yes although don't do anything you are going to regret in the future.
2006-12-13 22:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by allycat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not...but..well...it depends on your mood..for me..on date when in periods is a bad idea..well i tend to be very hot temper..like..everything is so wrong..so..maybe take a rain check..he'll understand..he SHOULD understand.. :)..maybe go out after like 3-4 days of period
2006-12-13 22:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by teffenytommy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him something has come up with family, something relating to christmas. ( family meaning its personal he wont ask to join you most likely) Otherwise if you are on your period some women tend to get tense, It could ruin the whole date and any friendship/romance you had.
2006-12-13 22:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by CrAzY 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes you should. A guy should respect the fact that you can't be with him one night because of this. And he's not worth it if he doesn't.
2006-12-13 22:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Rita 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes if you desire to go on a date not because he wants to. it should be your choice to decide on things you want done remember it is you who will experience what you like done or what will be done. imagine the end result can you live with it or not if yes then go ahead.
2006-12-13 22:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by bituin 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him the truth. make it short and sweet some guys don't want details but this way he won't feel rejected or maybe as they he'll get his red wings.
2006-12-13 22:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋