2006-12-13 13:58:45 · 16 answers · asked by sexy_plus21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will say this over and over...DATE, DATE, DATE!!!!! Surround yourself with friends and/or family who care about you. Keep yourself active with clubs, church, or ect. If a song comes on the radio that reminds you of him change the station. Replace any thoughts of your ex with other thoughts of happiness of other people and other things. The main key here is two simple words: DO SOMETHING.
2006-12-13 14:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dee A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is never easy to do! It is really hard to "get over" someone. I don't really think you ever get over as much as you learn to live with the circumstances. You need to start by evaluating yourself, start doing some nice things for you by yourself. Go for a manicure, a pedicure, spend a nice quiet day reading at the library. I know this may sound silly, but you need to learn to love yourself--become your own best friend. This way you learn to look to yourself and less at other people for love and the feeling of being complete.
Go out with some girlfriends! Dress up, make yourself feel attractive and hit the club!
Throw out pics, notes, and anything else that can remind you of him. Remember you are strong and independent. You don't need to let a man get you down! There are more fish in the sea!!!
2006-12-13 22:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by ~Shelly~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt love you, then dont think about him.
Get a new b/f, try to involve in other hobbies or interests, meet more girl friends, spend time with family, listen to music, etc. Anything that will keep your mind away from him. And this should be for ever, till he is no more than a memory that flashes rarely.
2006-12-13 22:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. And cut all ties with him. If you want to be friends in the future, fine. But for now if your having a hard time getting over him and if you really do want to get over him. Stay as far away from him as possible. It also wouldn't hurt to get yourself a little rebound relationship going with someone else!
2006-12-13 22:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rairia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard that is, but just remember there is a reason that he is your ex. Think of y that is and maybe it will get better. I use to think of all things he did that iterated me to no end and it helped.
2006-12-13 22:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laura if this is you I have an apology for you and I will ring you as soon as I get credit..but I didnt call as I DIDNT HAVE CREDIT and couldnt get access to other phones, god Laura I hope it aint you because if it is I still love you and want to work it out, if it is you PLEASE email me so we can talk, or just give me a call
2006-12-13 22:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to forget him..cuz the more u try..the more u remeber..
does he stil love u?
whats the point if u love someone who dont deserve it...
i know its hard to for gte..but TIME will take care...
and dont find another love..not yet!!!....
dont make that mistake..u will regret...its a wrong advice...dont find for new love...
find for yourself...be yourself...love yourself..and when the time comes..someone who really loves u..will find u..u dont have ti find for the loved one...
TIME is the best medicine u know... U WILL FORGET HIM...give your self some TIME...
2006-12-13 22:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by L_n_C_fReAk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont. once you fall in love, you dont fall back out. tell him you love him still and just hope for the best.
x33 BabiiBrownie818
2006-12-13 22:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by babiibrownie818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1. do him and dump him
2. tease him and dump him
...the dump is paramount, repetition is tantamount to the dump, his foolishness is negated by getting action from you...
a true juggernaut...
2006-12-13 22:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by rick g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try start hanging out with new people (you dont have to start dating again if it hurts, they can just be new friends)
also, plan routes that dont cross his path, but dont be really wierd if you do bump into him. . . go with the flow
2006-12-13 22:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋