Just started talking to this girl who seems perfect for me.
same personality, likes, dislikes and both like each other.
She has a boyfriend who has been mistreating her should i interfere or just be her shoulder to cry on?
I thought it would be less difficult to interfere and better to comfort her in this any decisions?
Lets see here, I've been
I'm funny,
good looking,
passionate,
comforting.
To her and she still stays with him?
I'am in a very unhappy mood.
2006-12-13 13:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have told her my feelings already, by interfering i mean in-between arguing.
2006-12-13 14:06:09 · update #1
A shoulder is good, but you should let h er know how you feel and then ask yourself is the shoulder enough if she is not ready to leave her boyfriend. Its really great of you to do that. In my book, you rock. Dont waste too much time waiting to see what she decides after you tell her how you feel, you are a catch and there are others out there that would be worthy of a sweety like you.
2006-12-13 14:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is more than meets than eye. You should move on........women often go toward the abusive men because the woman wants to try to change him and thus get credit for such an endeavor. If you are a guy who has alot going for you, as you say, you need to find a woman that is beyond the 'changing the bad to good guy' thing. Usually that comes in the form of an older girl/woman who finally sees what life is all about. There are good women out there......keep your eyes open.
2006-12-13 22:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by brewbeer212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you mean by interfering.
A way to get her to notice how good of a guy you are and how much of a dick face her boyfriend is, is to spend more time with her.
The more time she spends with you and NOT her boyfriend, the more likely she is to leave his *** in the dirt. And go for you.
Good Luck!
2006-12-13 22:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by football_crazy_62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off let me say I am sorry you are unhappy.
As far as this girl that is a friend to you I say let her lean on you. Many great loves come from great friends. Good Luck and cheer up she is your friend.
2006-12-13 22:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get envolved, she will drag you along and then you'll ended up hurt. If she is for you, will be for you after she is done with her drama.
That is her situation and she needs to resolve it first...
2006-12-13 22:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by L M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone.
2006-12-13 22:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you...
2006-12-13 21:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋