I'm 16, and there are some girls that I really like, I want to go out with them, but I dont know if I should go all the way, or just spend a lot of time with her and have a real relationship? (mostly girls please, guys can answer if they want)
2006-12-13 13:49:52 · 18 answers · asked by asher j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a real relationship with her.
Trust me.
Let's say you went ALL THE WAY.
She ended up pregnant.
And you my friend, have a gun shot wedding.
If you have a real relationship,
you will have a better reputation,
probably make a friend,
and just learn to love.
2006-12-13 13:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Leilani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by mathison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude i remember when i was 16 (im now 23) and i know i wanted to go all the way with a girl. every 16 year old does. that doesnt mean they do or even have the opportunity too. take things as they come, without thinkin about what will happen. you cant treat every relationship as the be all and end all. you dont know how it will work out. my advice would be, just do what feels right. you can go out with a girl, but it doesnt mean you will or have to have a sexual thing with her.
2006-12-13 13:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always take your time to get to know the girl. If you really like her, and you have sex too soon, you won't get to know who she really is first cuz once you have sex all kinds of other stuff get in the way. And quick beginning always have quick endings and lots of broken and misunderstood hearts. But if you take your time learning things about each other first .. you'll know how to avoid those relationship pit-falls, thats why some relationships last and other end soon.
2006-12-13 13:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by sailingawaynance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u 16 live yo life hun dont waiste yo time on relationships have a relationship when u is ready to settle down like when u is 20 u know what im sayin so if i wuz u if i were a dude den i would screw all da gurls i wanted n hang out wit my homeboys u know u aint got time now for hoez screw em den leave em!!!
i shouldnt be talkin cuz im 17 n i gotta boyfriend we gotta good relationship n nobody screwed n left me but if i were a dude datz what i would do!!!
2006-12-13 14:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by New mom 4 lyfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a real relationship. dont go all the way wait. your way to young and if some thing happens then u will pay for the rest of your life
2006-12-13 13:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for a "relationship." Don't get in a relationship until you are at least 28. Until then, have a lot of fun by supporting the latex industry.
2006-12-13 13:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by PK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship always goes first. You regret going all the way and just "using" a girl like that. Believe me, for the sake of your conscience, do it the right way.
2006-12-13 13:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ,if ya do go all the way take all precautions against pregnancy and paying child support or going to jail all the time,get to know them ,there probably not ready to go all the way either .
Is there any point saying save it for marriage ,it's a sin?
2006-12-13 13:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should have a real relationship cause no offens but you are kinda too young to be going all the way and how will the gurls feel if they find out what yall had was fake?
2006-12-13 13:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋