ok so heres the story:
there is this really cute boy and he rides my bus! but he does pott i think he likes me but im not sure! i really really love him and can't seem to get over it! what do i do?
2006-12-13 13:48:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't like drugs it will be hard for you to date someone that does them so I say just move on and find another guy.
2006-12-13 13:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that you are at an empass in ur life. The choices you make her can have great bearing on the direction, and outcome of ur future. What do you hope, or expect out of ur tomorrows?
Do you want pot, or other drugs to be a part of that? Do you think pott and other drugs are going to take you down a sucessful path?
I been smokin pott since I was 16, more than 20 years. It's in every town, in every state of the union and points abroad. Somehow that makes me smile some. But the idea of a sweet young girl being corrupted by it and some boy on the bus just doesn't make me smile. You are at the threshold of something very large. The best thing you can do is think about it. Those things don't make you cool. What makes you cool is growing up, going to colledge, inventing a car that takes me home when I've had too much of Grandpa's tea.
2006-12-13 14:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, take back the "really really love" thing. You'll know love when it hits you and this is infatuation. If he does pot and you think so highly of him then if you two start dating he will probably get youi into pot aswell. You woll find that the drug means more to a person than any relationship they may have. And no, even if you think they will quit for you, you're living in a dream world.
2006-12-13 13:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a great thing for everyone.....but if he is into the drug thing you better think really hard, DO you want someone who is clear headed and knows what is going on in the world, or someone who is doing drugs and is going to mess up your life as well as theirs.....take care I hope you make the right choice.
2006-12-13 13:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by qckdrw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like all and sundry else has mentioned, you're 13; that's somewhat youthful to be "in love." You mentioned that the extra you're around Kohl, the extra you like him—that's nowhere on the part of loving him. additionally, getting you to objective medications isn't a favorable element. interior the fast term, medications can impression your schoolwork and private existence; interior the long-term, they may lead you into different, stronger components, that are addicting and doubtlessly deadly. Doing medications isn't a sturdy thank you to flow, and somebody who convinces you to objective them even much less. besides, you have already got a boyfriend. don't be disloyal to him; in case you come to a decision that this Kohl fellow is "genuinely for you," smash up with your boyfriend first. do no longer flow gallivanting around at the back of his back. finally, however you probable do no longer % to pay attention it, you're certainly very youthful. as a replace of disturbing approximately which boy is "your love," you will desire to be specializing in college. Are you making plans to flow to college? Your practise and profession is plenty extra long-term and important than any boys you would be infatuated with once you're 13.
2016-12-11 08:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he does drugs; then does waste your time, or both of you later would seek drugs! AND your heath would e in a serious risk!
Further, drugs very soon would turn his face to such .... that no one could have a glance at him for ONE second!
SO, never count in these kinds of value 'cute' as these values would change, and a real love would never change when values changes!
2006-12-13 13:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me. If he says he won't do it anymore because you don't like it, he'll end up doing it sooner or later. I have promised many boyfriends that I would stop and until I wanted to do it for me it never worked.Although you can do some research on it and maybe show him all the downsides of smoking marijuana and maybe that will make him want to stop.GoodLuck
2006-12-13 13:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you say really really love him? i think you have a crush but trust me...those who do drugs arent easy to deal with and usually they are trouble...if u want trouble find someone sober and make a realtionship work...thats hard enough!...lol just let this thing die, move on for someone like you, not looking up at you cause hes cute....good luck
2006-12-13 13:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by sweetness666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously know nothing about love or you wouldnt say you really love him. For starters grow up and unless you already do drugs yourself then forget him because he needs to grow up too!!!You dont need him or drugs!
2006-12-13 13:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by et 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide if you are ok with dating someone who does drugs. If the answer is yes, then ask him out, if the answer is no, then move on
2006-12-13 13:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋