I have a crush on this one girl, and for some reason I am really into her. Unlike any other crush I have had before, I can't stop thinking about her, and when I see her I just instantly become happy. It makes my day to see her. The only thing is, I told her that I had a crush on her and she didn't seem effected either way. It is very hard to get a read on her. She says she likes someone else but will not tell me. But when I am not at lunch (I sit next to her) She becomes concerned and questions where I was. And she seems to pay attention to everything I say. What Should I do??????
2006-12-13 13:45:40 · 6 answers · asked by beretofthegreen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like this girl , do not chase her, or go out of your way too much, well not at the moment anyway,, give her space, Don't be at her beckon call either,, You need to act like you still have a life yourself, even if she appears to be the only female on the planet to you right now. Girls are funny, I've raised a few, and the more you chase them, give them too much, call too much , are available too much,, they think your just not what they are looking for.. Like I said, it's a strange thing.. But I think if you are nice, cordial, and keep seeming a little interested, but at the same time let her know you can do with or without her ( that would be in a very nice way), Like oh I wish I could , but I have something to do then, but I will be free tomorrow. Until you feel , she can return your feeling's .. Its a hard thing to do, don't let your guard either.. I would love to know the out come of this .. Good Luck to you.. This is such a hard thing for both male and females... Love is Great,, But it can be hard and hurtful
2006-12-13 14:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Understand that girls get hit on every day of their lives after puberty... DUH!!! So they are pretty used to hearing some guy is attracted to her... But with that in mind, don't despair, there's still hope.
2) Tell her you want to go out....
3) Personally, I avoid the girls that make me goofy.... Only happened a couple of times but I knew it would not be good for me as I had no control whatsoever.
- good luck
2006-12-13 13:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the situation. If your in her friendship zone she thinks of you as a friend first and formost. you have no chance one your her friend. Move on and find someone who will like you back.
2006-12-13 13:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by plastic.hearts.&&.paper.smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think outside the box if you want entry into the box. The "other" person to whom she refers is YOU!! Dress in your best and let her know about the rest - she wiil melt...
2006-12-13 13:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by rick g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u stupid or what? it's a sign that she likes you either. just that maybe she's shy to show. go for it and you'll totally, completely be happy. goodluck
2006-12-13 14:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by totallylost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you she is either scared to be with you or can't be with you because she loves you too much to tell u y she can't
2006-12-13 13:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by marion r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋