I Told a Girl that I was really attracted to her and?

Question

she gave me an iffy answer. More specifically, I told I how I felt about her and asked how she felt about me. She told me I see you as a friend (We know it each other from a college class). This occurred last week and she still calls me and emails me. We even had dinner together. What do you make of this? Should I ask her again? I don't want to come on as a creepy guy.

Answer 1

I'm a little confused... you told her you wanted to be more than friends and asked how she felt? AND she said she sees you as a friend??? BUT she e-mails and calls...
The only thing I can think of is the conversations in the e-mail and calls... Does it sound friendly or does it sound like she's moving into something else???
- Normally they don't say the see you as a friend if they see potential as something else... see why I'm confused?

Answer 2

•STEP 1: Yeah, it hurts to hear it. The truth is, you'll get over it.
•STEP 2: Realize that this person, no matter how much you like him or her, is not going to reciprocate. You can't make a person love you. And you can drive yourself crazy trying.
•STEP 3: You deserve a partner who respects you and cares about you. You want to feel secure and valuable, right? Remember this.
•STEP 4: At first, you'll experience denial. "It's not really over," you tell yourself. Now tell yourself that it's not your fault. You could have been this or that - but you weren't. Don't dwell on your imagined shortcomings.
•STEP 5: Don't try to get him or her back by making drastic improvements. It won't work. It's too late for that. If you do anything, do it for yourself. Now is the time to be selfish.
•STEP 6: Go to your friends or family - those who accept you and will understand your hurt.
•STEP 7: Take up a hobby or sport. Get your mind off your breakup. Stay busy - this is key.
•STEP 8: You will get depressed. It's normal. You will get angry; this is normal too.
•STEP 9: Decide that you wanted it to be over. Convince yourself of this.
•STEP 10: You might try finding someone else - and some people will suggest this - but it's not very healthy and won't really be fair to the new person. Give yourself time to pull yourself together.
•STEP 11: Don't get obsessive. If you feel that you can't get over it by yourself, get professional help. You don't want to turn into a stalker.

Answer 3

I think she may be a little nervous. Try to be romantic with her but not to an extreme, make her a nice dinner at your house. She might think of you as just a friend because she's never thought of you anyother way. Show her that you can be her man and will always have her back.

Answer 4

She flat out just likes you as a friend, for now. Don't ask her again, but keep seeing her, while keeping in mind that it may not go anywhere. Girls develop crushes just as easily as guys; she could fall for you if you keep hanging out. Don't be pushy, and don't tell her again how you feel, because that would make things really awkward.

Answer 5

you should defiantly ask where you guys are standing. I'm sure she want to know where you stand also. Plus if you never try you'll never know OR get her, and therefore creating what you fear in the first place.

Answer 6

Yup she likes you.

My advice is that be bold. Got to kiss her. thats the only way to find. Seen Scarface?

Answer 7

ask her when i's the right time
when it comes prepare something big like a dinner or someting fancy smancy

Answer 8

No not yet wait a few more days, weeks months

Answer 9

Too late, she probably still doesn't know that girls can't be just friends yet.