well i live in NY and my boyfriend lives in Mass and he says he loves me and every thing he says he wants to marry me but every time we talk he says he has to go to the gym with friends and he has a sister and she always hes her friends over there but he says he never does wants to do anything with them and i kinda dont belive him i mean i love him his the best thing that ever happen to me and he just started drinking and all his friends wants him to go to a party for the second time will he cheat on me ? will he really come up here to see me is he telling me the truth or not ?
2006-12-13 13:43:49 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to really find it...is asking him straight out......there is no way around it.....Good Luck
2006-12-13 13:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i c ur predicament i had advice that would actually work but need to be around him. i wll giv u any way stop doin all the things u would do for him in ur case stop callin him if he cheatin he will not retaliate at all he will not call u or wateva but if he is not cheatin and really love u he will reach to where u at to find out wats up he will call u worried worried to find out if u all right then girl u would no if u man urs or someone elses
2006-12-13 13:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by thebeautifultakiesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it seems you cant trust this guy or your not ready to trust him...long distance relationships are like casper the ghost...you have them but u cant really hold on to them...people will always be people, i was in one of these for along time and we both saw other people, if this man wants to marry you and your unhappy how he conducts himself with his friends, then its time to move on...your going to go through alot of pain and hurt and you dont have too.....Life brings many good things if we are looking for them, just look for someone who will be there for you...and no frustration, dont reach for the fruit higest on the tree just because, you deserve better than that....hoping what u decide to do works out
2006-12-13 13:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the same time as he without caution has events that he in no way had to do before...at the same time as he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his concepts-set in the route of you is replacing, if he tells you he "purely needs some ME time" in case you stay at the same time a number of those are indicators too... a million. decrease favor to be with you sexually. 2. without caution tries new sexual positions. 3. operating overdue extra usually. 4. Mysterious telephone calls. 5. receives indignant once you seem on the cellular telephone, pager, or workstation. Is secretive of such. 6. scent of body spray on their clothing. 7. Takes a bath once he comes abode. 8. you locate hairs or different products on his body or in his possessions. 9. starts off taking extra care inclusive of his visual attraction. 10. Accuses you of dishonest. 11. he alterations his generic recurring with out reason or reason.
2016-11-26 01:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way to find out is have a gril friend of yours try to get with him, make sure he doesnt know her, and have them both be at the same place, and have her hit on him, see if he accepts her offer, if he does then he is a cheat...if not, then maybe not..also you can set up a threesome with another girl, and see if he enjoys that, that way he will never cheat on you, cuz he can have the strange with you....
2006-12-13 14:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its possible that he could be cheating on you. Its also possible that hes being honest. Only thing i can tell you is to use your best judgement. You dont want to accuse him of anything he didnt do.
2006-12-13 13:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by HollywoodM80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f he loves you he will come to you , if he is cheating on you you can feel it in your heart , its like kinda of a gut feeling , and if he is cheating on you let him go cause he dont really loves you , hopefully thats not it . good luck , and remeber if he loves he will come to you .
2006-12-13 13:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by angelcarmenfluffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if the trust is not there then the relationship is not a good one. You don't trust him and there is a reason for that. Either you are too suspicious or he is giving you reasons to doubt.
2006-12-13 13:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.....that would be so sad....
well lots of guys cant keep they're eye away from other woman...
so idk....its your deicion to believe in him or not...no one can make a desicion for you...you make it....
srry if its not any good of help...wish you the bestest luck.
and if he did....kick his srry a**...^^
2006-12-13 13:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋