I LIVE W/BF AND HE IS ADDICTED TO PORN SO THERE 4 WE DONT HAVE SEX OR ANY TYPE OF INTIMACY. I AM HAVING A HARD TIME DEALING WITH HIM WATCHING THIS EVERY CHANCE HE GETS, INCLUDING 800 #. I AM A FREAK IN THE BEDROOM AND I NEED AND LOVE SEX, I HAVE TO RUB ONE OFF DAILY! SO MY NEW DELEMA IS I MET A GREAT GUY AND IVE BEEN TALKIN TO HIM ON THE PHONE AND I THINK ITS TIME TO KICK IT UP A NOTCH AND HANG OUT W/THE NEW GUY .
SHOULD I GO OUT WITH THE NEW GUY?
2006-12-13 13:43:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly doesn't sound like he's going to change without seeking help. you need to first make a decision on wether you can compramise on what you need in your sex life.. obviously you aren't happy so i'd say that is a no... so if you're not willing to compromise on what you want for sex and he's not giving it to you then you need to change that by not being with him... if you can compromise on it then i would help him find councling or try to join in on the porn sessions...
in terms of the next guy... chances are he's a great guy. however you are in rebound/revenge mode. you are hurt and upset and probably extremely horny. Now if you don't mind this person being a rebound then by all means go for it... if you don't want to rebound you probably should be single for a while to sow your oats so to say... becuase you do have some resentment towards your boyfriend for not having sex with you but turning to porn... I'd say if you're okay with the rebound or boytoy idea then go for the new guy... if not then be single and have some fun nothing to serious !
2006-12-13 13:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by heartbreaker6713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.....some of that sutff didn't need to be said...but If you arne't happy and are considering dating other people..just leave the person you are with and date people who will give you the proper amount of attention that you would like to have. Remember that he obviously has an addiction/problem and lots of times that escalates to further activity with other people. I say if you are that unhappy leave and be a free person to do as you please. You should try talking with him and seeing if he wants to be intimate with you or if other things are getting in the way. communication is good.
2006-12-13 21:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Princesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I think you should ditch the porn addict, and go have some fun with someone you can actually spend time with. You only live once! you go girl, have a great time. Good luck.
2006-12-13 21:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet. Break it off with the old guy, move him out and THEN you are a free agent.
Face it, the old guy isn't ever going to be who you want. Take it slower next time.
2006-12-13 21:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by mdbaumbach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong wif going out wif someone...
but u gave to be control, gal...
try to think bout ur current b/f.. although he is not perfect(i mean sex) but at least he's loves u...
dont do tat thing wif other guy before u break up
2006-12-14 02:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the bald headed champion and get someone that likes real girls....
2006-12-13 21:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely get rid of your current boyfriend first, and then see whoever you want..
2006-12-13 21:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think so, but before you do, break up with the first one, after all he is not makng you happy. its his fault.
good luck!!
2006-12-13 21:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by ana u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the current guy.
2006-12-13 21:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD DEFINETLY LEAVE THE CURRENT GUY!!!!
IS THIS REALLY THE LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE???
2006-12-13 21:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋