He have been waiting for this right moment to ask me and I know he want to have sex with me so bad. But Im not ready to go that route with him yet. People say since we been together for almost two years we should make love and he's listen to that shytt they say. I want to know other people opinion, so dont be shy to reply to my problem.
2006-12-13 13:27:27 · 19 answers · asked by dknowmuch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait until you get married. Don't worry about what other people say. They won't have to go through the hurt you will if he leaves you after that. If you give in, that just makes you like all the other girls he has done if he has. If he really loves you, he will understand and wait for you until marriage. IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL WAIT.
2006-12-13 13:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by BrittanyChantell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its when ever you are ready, is when you are ready. And only you can answer that. Withmy last BF of 3 years, it took me a year to have sex with him. And with my current BF of 1 Year, it took us 3 days to have sex with each other. So dont give in, only ytou know when the perfect time is.
2006-12-13 13:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by melinda g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get married. Guys want to hump anything with two bumps on the chest with long hair. Don't let them touch you until there's a ring on the finger and the wedding gown's been taken off.
2006-12-13 13:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends how old u are. if 16 or younger, 2 years its okay to be with him and not have sex. if u are 18/20 or older, its a little strange. (very) but that's okay. do it when ever u feel ready. u'll enjoy it way more than being forced into it.
2006-12-13 13:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its usually 3 dates in the adult world. But it is not a hard and fast rule.
But in the teenage world it IS when both parties are ready.. and NOT before. Its important that your 1st time be with someone you really care about.
2006-12-13 13:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Vanchaser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe there is a time limit.
Most people would probably disagree with me but I would wait till marriage.
2006-12-13 13:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself,I would have been gone about 14-15 months ago.If you're planning to be a nun,go live in the habit !
2006-12-13 13:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if there is, I'm gonna break it. (oops! i answered this thinkin that you asked if there is a time limit for a couple to have sex)
anyway, go however long it takes. it doesn't matter. if you're ready or not, he SHOULD respect you.
2006-12-13 13:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope whenever you feel ready!! i waited till i got married first when i knew i loved him. I was a virgin until forever + he shouldn't rush you!!
2006-12-13 13:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are ready. Thats all I can say. It is a big decision.
2006-12-13 13:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Husker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋